Big Boss Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Well it depends on her as well. If she loves you enough then she should talk to her parents at some stage. Tell her to try at least, dont be scared. The world has changed now and everyone is open to love marriages. If nothing works out, ask her to politely tell her parents that she wont run away, but she wont marry anyone else. Hopefully they will realize and agree to it. Dont force her to run away in case parents dont agree. Girls never agree to that, very rarely they hurt their parent's feelings. We had decided that if our parents wont agree, we wont marry and stay unmarried till our parents give up. But we never wanted to run away (I did at first, but she didn't budge, they dont) But you must be sure that you are a good match. If you are not, then the parents wont agree. It is a hard truth (I am not talking about money, everyone prints money in IT later on) All the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Can't send PM to you , rock Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosh Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Y u guys bump this thread and remind me of my misery :/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
devil_angel Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Y u guys bump this thread and remind me of my misery :/ Yeppon kadikum? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Try now egg man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dharmin Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Y u guys bump this thread and remind me of my misery :/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Br0keN 1riS Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Dude get married at 25. Why the hell you need 3 more years? When you are convinced that she is the one, then don't worry. I got married at 25. Never thought I will marry at 25, nor did my parents (28 was the age I thought). But my wife's parents wanted to marry her early, and then I thought what the hell, they are right. What if something happens and we break up at 27-28, then her age might cause problem in getting suitable match. So we got married. Remember marriage is the most important decision one can take in his/her life. If you are risking it only for career or studies etc, then dont do that. I know how that feels. My wife and me were in same team when we were dating. Just patch up with her and get married in 2 years. Maybe get engaged within a year, who knows she might wait for 2.5 years or so. Yeppon kadikum? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanjosh Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Hmm....There are so many problems and she doesn't want to fight. First of all I'm younger than her. Then she is a brahmin and I'm not. We're from different states. I'm a non veg and she is a veg. Really hate it when trivial stuff like this becomes an issue between two peoples love. Scares me in fact. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abhi90 Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Yeppon kadikum? kripya inn vacahn ka poorn matlab batayen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Really hate it when trivial stuff like this becomes an issue between two peoples love. Scares me in fact. I know right?? She did a 180 turn and now she says she's not willing to fight her parents. It's always what we thought we'll do and now she's got cold feet Sent from my Samsung Galaxy S3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThE JuGgErNaUT Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 I got a scary scenario for ya. What if she says she'll talk to her parents. They don't agree initially, BuT agree later for whatever reason but definately not the boy. Later, what will haunt you isn't why they said yes, but what if they'd said no. Would she have chosen you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 Haha.. Anyway I'm trying to get over her.. Don't want to imagine stuff related to her Sent from my Samsung Galaxy S3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThE JuGgErNaUT Posted December 21, 2012 Report Share Posted December 21, 2012 My bad! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted December 24, 2012 Report Share Posted December 24, 2012 Haha.. Anyway I'm trying to get over her.. Don't want to imagine stuff related to her Sent from my Samsung Galaxy S3 Hi eggmen, Hugs. I do understand what you must be going through. So it was good, there were expectations gap and it came to an end. Remember her for the good times. Keep your chin up. What rock said hold good intentions and commitment and courage from both the partners, in your case I get a feeling that the girl never wanted to try out too hard. Whatever it us, I am sure it is best for you both. You will realize it in retrospect. Accept that you are single. Make a list of all the stuff you are passionate about and give it a go. Enroll yourself in a gym. Release your pent up anger and hurt in those push ups and weights. Not only will you get adrenaline rush you will also look awesome.. And many hot girls in the gym will sure wanna hang out with a hunk.. What say? You are young. Focus on getting a new job preferably in a new location. Love yourself, love all the things you want and go achieve them. When time is right, you will find the girl who deserves you. All the best! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RegeneratorMantis Posted December 26, 2012 Report Share Posted December 26, 2012 Daiyum, single ftw! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosh Posted December 26, 2012 Report Share Posted December 26, 2012 kripya inn vacahn ka poorn matlab batayen He means when will you bite ? Not kidding Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GameAnalyzer Posted December 26, 2012 Report Share Posted December 26, 2012 Forever Alone. . Girls are very moody. Atleast for me i meant sometime she talks and sometime she doesn't. WTH. :| Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThE JuGgErNaUT Posted December 27, 2012 Report Share Posted December 27, 2012 soon u shall realise that the typical woman cliche portrayed in sitcoms is actually quite true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Rohan Seth Posted December 27, 2012 Report Share Posted December 27, 2012 Pyaar Ka Punchnama. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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