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[Nemo]

He wud have suggested a wham bam thank u mam routine anywqy.

[Zeehunter]

I miss Avi's comments

All that girl needs is Sex

She ran away after seeing your hair cut
Just show her your penis she will come running back riding it ..
Vrooom Vroom ..

[devil_angel]

All that girl needs is Sex

She ran away after seeing your hair cut
Just show her your penis she will come running back riding it ..
Vrooom Vroom ..

Go away wannabe.

[Gaurav - Solitaire]

I like how you're generalising a huge population.

There are 2 kinds implied in my statements. The third obviously includes ones that don't fall into either of these 2, ones that will stick with you without expecting you to change totally, but they are few.

[Totti- the Real #10]

Hello i am not exactly heart broken but i wanted to share this:

I'm 18 and my gf too is 18..this is my first relationship its only been mere 20 days.
She is in my town just for giving the exams and we where together in classes and that's where we came close.
I am actually very confused about her.I will be most probably moving to banglore in 20-25 days and she will be going somewhere else.
It's been 20 days but i have felt for her.

Now here comes the sad part:
She claims she had 22 boyfriends,my friends call her a slut which is very stereotype of people to say.
Maybe she is just using me or doing time pass with me but i'm kinda fallen for her.
She has a lot of male friends..and been hanging out with random studs for long.
I feel like I am being ignored as a friend of her visited her and she has been hanging out a lot.Like movies,dinner stuff etc.

First relationship... not more than 20 days... gonna end in 20 more... she doesn't hang out with you for movies, dinner stuff etc.

Damn, you are one lucky guy. So basically you are having sex for free

Edited by Avishkar, 13 May 2012 - 11:28 AM.

[Totti- the Real #10]

I gave her a lot of attention..She seems like a person who gets bored of people very quickly.

I gave her a call at 7:30 and she is been ignoring me up till now.

I had gone to Delhi to give my exams/interview on 5th and I returned on 10th...The moment I returned I didn't even change my clothes and charged my vehicle and went to meet her..didn't even talk to my parents.

But i think the stupid reason here is i got a haircut for my interview in order to look decent..well after that i look decent but i look weird..I mean i used to look somewhat good in long hair(not very long)..and she was telling me why i cut my hair and all..and in a funny way that don't show me your face and all.

We used to talk like crazy 24*7 in which most of the calls where done by her...it was like she didn't even give me a chance to call her.

Well...I strongly feel that my looks have gone and hence so is the attention gone.

It's sad as its my first relationship i was kinda excited and all..You won't believe i have cared for her like crazy..gave her full freedom..etc.Been very nice and now feeling like a jackass.

Ok this was funny. I don't think a gf would stop talking to you because of your bad haircut. I mean you guys are not 12 years old ffs. Just accept the fact that she has moved on and enjoying her life while you cannot appreciate what a great girl she was. She let you f**k her without even expecting you to take her out for movies and spend money on her. You should be sad for losing a girl like that instead of thinking that the reason she dumped you is because of your hairstyle.

And i am not boasting or stuff but I bet i can get more hotter girls than her but I kinda feel she is good for me..I like the way she is why can't she understand?

Is that why you haven't had a relationship for 20 years? Because you can always get more hotter girls? Grow up man. You either get them or you don't. There is no value for 'I can get hotter girls.' If you are not getting them, you can't.

Why is she acting strange?Lately she was talking about her ex-boyfriends..and other than that when I visited her on 10th..she made plans to go out on dinner with her so called male friend.When i told her is she hungry..she told no and she went for dinner with that guy?!!?!Obviously she doesn't want me.

She just wants to have some fun man. She is a nice person and likes enjoying herself. Let her enjoy with other guys as long as she is giving you a good time as well. You are like 20, not 40 that you need to find a girl and get married to.

Edited by Avishkar, 13 May 2012 - 11:48 AM.

[Zeehunter]

^^

[Gaurav - Solitaire]

First relationship... not more than 20 days... gonna end in 20 more... she doesn't hang out with you for movies, dinner stuff etc.

Damn, you are one lucky guy. So basically you are having sex for free

He never said he got any

Also, what's with IVG today, forum seems kinda broken.

[Zeehunter]

^^

[Totti- the Real #10]

Have updated the Double Post with more feedback for you bro.

[Totti- the Real #10]

I even told her i will ignore the top law school for her and we will take in any law school she wants..etc. etc.

I don't get it i am being so nice and she is suddenly acting like a bitch.Why?Because of the f**king haircut?!!?

Edit:As it is a I don't have many friends nor do i converse with my parents much.I am actually a loner..maybe that's the reason i feel sad.She was kinda special.

It was like serious not time pass.I knew times when she was really desperate to view a glance of me..So why such a sudden change?

Maybe i do have to leave her..

1st line: I lost all respect I have for you. Your parents have spent so much money on you and have such high dreams for you and you wanna ruin it by not going to the best law school (best you could get with your abilities). Why? Because of a girl. No matter how awesome she is, anyone doing this has no respect in my books.

I don't get it i am being so nice and she is suddenly acting like a bitch.Why?Because of the f**king haircut?!!?

Because you are weak. Your life depends on her while her doesn't. It's simple. It's not her fault that you are so crazy in love with her when she is not. Accept that fact and respect it.

Maybe i do have to leave her..

That ship has sailed bro. I think she has already left you.

Sorry but these are the cold hard facts.

Edited by Avishkar, 13 May 2012 - 11:40 AM.

[ash_]

I even told her i will ignore the top law school for her and we will take in any law school she wants..etc. etc.

[ash_]

dp..

Edited by ash_, 13 May 2012 - 11:55 AM.

[Madmage]

Krut -- not love, its just hormones man.



Love is what I have for Skyrim.

[megzworld]

Krut..

Firstly, just because a girl calls you and "seems" interested in you , does not mean she is going to get committed to you and marry you in 20 days. This girl has been very bindaas with you, told you she had 22 Boyfriends, and so you should have sensed that she just wanna hang around and have some fun. No strings attached. And if she does not like your face anymore because of a haircut, she hold the right to reject.

You can either be all sissy and heartbroken about something as silly as this..or laugh it off and tell yourself..Yay! I am saved! and focus on your exams, games or other girls.

As for girls being fickle minded...Like you cannot generalize men, you cannot generalize girls either. There are all types.

[Udham]

22 boyfriends in the age of 18?
Is it even believable?

[alphabeta]

Maybe you should rub one out before you meet her. That might cool your passions a bit.

[Gaurav - Solitaire]

22 boyfriends in the age of 18?
Is it even believable?

She has a very high strike rate... damn she'd do well in the IPL

But I don't get it, when she said she had that many boyfriends why would you even fall in love with someone like her if you were looking for something permanent. And 20 days? Seriously man, 20 days is nothing in 'relationship-time'. Forget her and move on. You should always be ready for that possibility, heck I've known friends who have had to move on after 5-10 years in a relationship.

Take care of your own career first, get where you want to get... if anything, a woman in your life should inspire you and egg you onward, not hold you back from something that is good for you.

[Totti- the Real #10]

22 boyfriends in the age of 18?
Is it even believable?

yup

[Rohan Seth]

1st line: I lost all respect I have for you. Your parents have spent so much money on you and have such high dreams for you and you wanna ruin it by not going to the best law school (best you could get with your abilities). Why? Because of a girl. No matter how awesome she is, anyone doing this has no respect in my books.



Because you are weak. Your life depends on her while her doesn't. It's simple. It's not her fault that you are so crazy in love with her when she is not. Accept that fact and respect it.



That ship has sailed bro. I think she has already left you.

Sorry but these are the cold hard facts.

Well said mate.
But I think you went a little hard on him.

[Udham]

yup

'Boyfriend' in her own definition may be.
Speak to a guy the phone for 2 weeks and proclaim that he is the new boyfriend, guy gets a haircut, and bam, move to next!

Still, 22 is an achievement, she can organize a cricket match with all her exes, under-19 hormone-y cup. :l

[Zeehunter]

22 boyfriends in the age of 18?
Is it even believable?

Yep .. I have seen girls having dozens of bfs

All they do is use the guys for paying bills , hang out with them and when his pocket empties then leave him
It seems the same case here


Really krut how could U even fall for her when she said she had 22 bfs already ??
It's your mistake , U should have known beforehand that the girl was never is a serious relationship with you

[krut]

I might have exaggerated a bit in my posts.
Perhaps I'm still not ready for these relationships and stuff. Obviously my parents and career comes first.
She is back to normal behavior of hers..but i have learned a lesson not to be such a over sensitive,helpless and hopeless in these matters.
I ain't dependent on her dude..I was just angry.And about ignoring my parents ah,nah i did talk for a while then went to her.

I went on this stupid nerd rage due to the intense pressure of exams..lol that's what i think.She hasn't left me.
About that haircut,yea lol that was probably a silly assumption by me.

Anyways all is fine.I appreciate your views guys.

@Avishkar I won't leave any good colleges or ignore my parents for her.I was angry and I said that..but then i realize after my exams were over..wait..what?

Itni akkal hai mujme.She hangs out with me for dinner,lunch etc. I said..only that time she ignored me as she thought i was not going to spend the whole evening with her and she had promised her friend and all.Anyways that guy is 6 years older to her...

Sorry this isn't just me.Still figuring out why i said that bullshit.Anyways,everything is normal now,things are going good.

Sometimes I really feel sad when people say she is a slut,even my bestie said she is one and when she is coming back and all..Well maybe she is but all i want is a emotional relationship,not much.Physical yes but not that much what few guys are saying here.

I am not serious for her as I used to be.All i know is she is a nice person slut or not and I want to stay in touch in her..be it being a boyfriend or not.

Thank you.

Edit:About that 22 boyfriends,we talked more about it and i was relieved..that it was like 18 of them where only phone talks and such timepass(and she considered them to be her boyfriends) and most of them where like in early school..like just for creating a boyfriend not even knowing what that means but she said she "respected" all whatever type they where so 22 it is.
She had 3 'real' boyfriends.Phew..that was a relief.One was broken due to long distance,another dumped her and third one had some family problems.

Edited by krut, 14 May 2012 - 01:36 AM.

[Zeehunter]

[Totti- the Real #10]

'Boyfriend' in her own definition may be.
Speak to a guy the phone for 2 weeks and proclaim that he is the new boyfriend, guy gets a haircut, and bam, move to next!

Still, 22 is an achievement, she can organize a cricket match with all her exes, under-19 hormone-y cup. :l

More like an achievement if its a guy. Girl with 22 boyfriends... nah, not really something that would either make other girls jealous or other guys angry. Not being chauvinistic but its true.

@Krut: good to hear that. Just treat her well, take her out and show her a good time as long as you wanna be with her. Once you realise you have no more interest in her, then you can always slow things down. As for people calling her a slut, well let them say what they want. You are the one who is with her and not them. If you really like her, then you shouldn't really care. Don't jump into assumptions that she is in love with you as girls may say something which they don't mean "that way". Good luck.

[Rohan Seth]

Edit:About that 22 boyfriends,we talked more about it and i was relieved..that it was like 18 of them where only phone talks and such timepass(and she considered them to be her boyfriends) and most of them where like in early school..like just for creating a boyfriend not even knowing what that means but she said she "respected" all whatever type they where so 22 it is.
She had 3 'real' boyfriends.Phew..that was a relief.One was broken due to long distance,another dumped her and third one had some family problems.

[mirage]

@Krut:
Papa kehte thein...

Ladki, bus aur train ke peeche mat bhago,
Ek jaati hain to dusri zaroor aati hain..

And while you are at it, do pray for some action too..

[krut]

@Avishkar thank you..I won't jump to any assumptions.

Well yes that was a bit lame to say,more like filmy.Dunno why i said that.

Avishkar I am just willing to experience these things,its good to know someone cares that's all.

@Zeehunter She insists on paying the bills,sometimes is willing to gift me stuff but i say no.So she ain't using me.

It is confusing maybe i understood wrongly.

I hate people with stereotype thinking like if a girl has 22 boyfriends she is a slut and if a boy has 22 girlfriends he is a player?!

@mirage kinda true!Well yes,those things are done lol.

Anyways problem solved.Thank you once again.

Edited by krut, 14 May 2012 - 01:57 AM.

[Totti- the Real #10]

Everyone is using everyone my friend. And yeah, everyone likes a key that can open several locks but no one likes a lock that can be opened by each and every key. I'm the last person to judge but that is a sound logic you must agree

[Yellow Flash Of The Leaf]

i think im in love

Spoiler

Edited by sagar, 14 May 2012 - 02:07 AM.