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That's a good idea . Yup I have seen some of the best marriages in my family & some of the most twisted one's where lawyers encourage to tell lies in court. Resisting everyday bro, my family supports me so it's a bit easy to ignore all the "well-wishers".

True, emotional blackmail works most of the time but I would rather not go & waste my time (Read below response too ?). Even my family was not happy with my decision to not get married but they understand my reasoning & now they reject most of the proposals at their end. ? Keep dating but if you have made up your mind about marriage then stick to it hopefully they will understand one day. I go on dates but when it comes to such meetings I tend to avoid because my friend payed heavily for this. My friend went for a normal meeting with a girl setup by his relatives & after 3-4 meetings he told his parents that he isn't interested. The girl ended up filing a case of breach of promise to marry & he ended up paying approx 5 lacs (out of court settlement). This is very common & has happened to few of my friends & colleagues.

Why do relatives think it's their responsibility to make sure everyone they know gets married This is how the conversation with my Bua went which wasn't too long. Me: Namaste Bua Bua: Namaste beta, sunn main na thodi jaldi mein hun, meri janne vaali ki ladki hai usse teri meeting aaj fix kar di hai izzat rakh le beta milne chale jaaiyo. Me: arre bua aapko bataaya to tha nahi kar raha shaadi, aap baat to kar lete pehle. Bua: Beta har insan ki kuch zaruratein hoti hain jo shaadi ke baad biwi pura kar sakti hai ( I was too shocked to respond to this, I hope she didn't mean what I think she meant.) Chal tujhe photo naam aur number whatsapp kar rahi hun shaam 5 baje dlf mall noida mil aaiyo. This is the reason why I post the below pic as my whatsapp status for my relatives to see. ?

Childhood memories

For me the main reason I played Yakuza series was different fighting styles beast, rush, brawler & Dragon, sure story is always great but loved the beat em up style of the game. Old Yakuza games & judgement series is left now.

RIP KS ?

First & foremost no you ain't finished, your issues can be addressed, it may take time to resolve them but definitely doable. Take it from someone who thought his life was over but got out of it alive & well last December (mental health problems). If you are willing to let me help you, I can refer you to a doctor who I am pretty sure can treat all your mental health issues without any anti depressants (personal experience). Once this is fixed you can focus on social/professional/physical aspects of your life, which are comparatively easy to fix & me and other's from this community can help too.

I posted on my facebook a lot about laws that are abused such as 498(a) & how a woman can manipulate a man & make him do things he normally wouldn't such as move away from his parents. He ignored the advice & now is in the process of moving to another city for a new job. So many red flags but still he got married. ?‍♂️

The rational male by Rollo Tomassi, another one I suggested him was 'The manipulated man' by Esther Vilar.

Agreed bro, most live their life thinking it won't happen to me. Yup, no point wasting my time with him now that he has accepted the new job offer & moving away from parents house. ?‍♂️

In my opinion you can live your life without a partner, there are many people I know who are in their 70's & 80's doing exactly this and are healthy and happy. To each their own. I would rather live alone than signing a marriage document that can legally allow my partner to take my house/life earnings if she chooses to.

Got this message from one of my friends on Facebook, some Men learn things the hard way. ?‍♂️ I posted this on my fb story & so many angry replies ?

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