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  4. Random stuff from the internet (not news)

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    2 hours ago, Walker said:

    Because relatives are idiots. Turn up drunk or stoned or just be an absolute wanker. Should put you under some fire but it'll be worth it to get out of it...

     

    On the other hand I've also heard marriage can cure all of the bad habits too :lol: 

     

    f**k it man. Just resist.

    That's a good idea :lol:. Yup I have seen some of the best marriages in my family & some of the most twisted one's where lawyers encourage to tell lies in court.

    Resisting everyday bro, my family supports me so it's a bit easy to ignore all the "well-wishers".

  5. Random stuff from the internet (not news)

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    11 hours ago, SpearHea:D said:


    I hate this part. Emotional blackmail. Knowing in advance that i dont want to marry still arranging meetings. But then they are family members/relatives and doing their part and i am doing my part.  I explain it to girls that i have family pressure and i dont to marry, they understand and say no. Win win. 

    But what i hate the most is when the girls parents select me and i see hope and glimmer in their and my family members eyes, and i knowing that i am going to say no. It breaks my heart.

    Most probably i'll never marry, maybe i'll fall in love but i have closed my heart off so dont see that happening. A good chance, my mamaji from haryana kisi din bore mein baandh ke kanpati pe bandook rakh ke get me married. :lol: j/k they are furious though, tbh everyone is furious and everyday is a landime.

     

    True, emotional blackmail works most of the time but I would rather not go & waste my time (Read below response too ?). Even my family was not happy with my decision to not get married but they understand my reasoning & now they reject most of the proposals at their end. ?

    Keep dating but if you have made up your mind about marriage then stick to it hopefully they will understand one day.

     

    9 hours ago, Big Boss said:

    Have a meeting, bang her and then say no it can't work out. These are like tinder dates. MGTOW doesn't mean celibacy lol.

     

     

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    I go on dates but when it comes to such meetings I tend to avoid because my friend payed heavily for this.

    My friend went for a normal meeting with a girl setup by his relatives & after 3-4 meetings he told his parents that he isn't interested. The girl ended up filing a case of breach of promise to marry & he ended up paying approx 5 lacs (out of court settlement). This is very common & has happened to few of my friends & colleagues.

  6. Random stuff from the internet (not news)

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    Why do relatives think it's their responsibility to make sure everyone they know gets married :ranting:  This is how the conversation with my Bua went which wasn't too long.

     

    Me: Namaste Bua

     

    Bua: Namaste beta, sunn main na thodi jaldi mein hun, meri janne vaali ki ladki hai usse teri meeting aaj fix kar di hai izzat rakh le beta milne chale jaaiyo.

     

    Me: arre bua aapko bataaya to tha nahi kar raha shaadi, aap baat to kar lete pehle.

     

    Bua: Beta har insan ki kuch zaruratein hoti hain jo shaadi ke baad biwi pura kar sakti hai ( I was too shocked to respond to this, I hope she didn't mean what I think she meant.)

    Chal tujhe photo naam aur number whatsapp kar rahi hun shaam 5 baje dlf mall noida mil aaiyo.

     

    This is the reason why I post the below pic as my whatsapp status for my relatives to see. ?

     

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  11. Yakuza: Like a Dragon

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    On 5/5/2022 at 3:05 AM, Snake said:


    I’m not really party RPG kinda player, The game is good no doubt, but it came to a grinding halt for me when necessary grinding was required, plus the job system was meh to me . YMMV

     

    I know a lot of people loved the rpg switch, but a big fk u to RGG for switching it

    For me the main reason I played Yakuza series was different fighting styles beast, rush, brawler & Dragon, sure story is always great but loved the beat em up style of the game. Old Yakuza games & judgement series is left now. :ranting:

     

  17. Random stuff from the internet (not news)

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    9 hours ago, The Panda said:

     

    My original comment was more like an observation. I wasn’t exactly speaking for myself. I also don’t have the intention of marrying someone just because I can be taken care of in my old age. So when I said I’ll die alone in my previous comment, I meant unmarried from now till death. Because forget about marriage, I am such a loser that I don’t even have any friends or social life. I am finished professionally, personally, mentally and physically. Even my anti-depressants are not working lol. Unless some miracle happens, these issues cannot be fixed for several years and will most likely eff with me for the rest of my life. Thanks for the concern though, I really appreciate it.

    First & foremost no you ain't finished, your issues can be addressed, it may take time to resolve them but definitely doable. Take it from someone who thought his life was over but got out of it alive & well last December (mental health problems). 

     

    If you are willing to let me help you, I can refer you to a doctor who I am pretty sure can treat all your mental health issues without any anti depressants (personal experience). Once this is fixed you can focus on social/professional/physical aspects of your life, which are comparatively easy to fix & me and other's from this community can help too.

     

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  18. Random stuff from the internet (not news)

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    4 minutes ago, radicaldude said:

     

     

    What did you post btw? 

     

    I haven't checked this thread in a while now. 

    I posted on my facebook a lot about laws that are abused such as 498(a) & how a woman can manipulate a man & make him do things he normally wouldn't such as move away from his parents.

    He ignored the advice & now is in the process of moving to another city for a new job. So many red flags but still he got married. ?‍♂️

  21. Random stuff from the internet (not news)

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    2 minutes ago, Big Boss said:

    "For months I was so angry at you for posting those marriage related laws"

     

    What an idiot. Any truth that is uncomfortable made him angry. Also a member of "it won't happen to me bro" club. My suggestion is don't waste much time on him. Just say I told you so and ask him to get lost under his wife's pallu. :loser:

    Agreed bro, most live their life thinking it won't happen to me. Yup, no point wasting my time with him now that he has accepted the new job offer & moving away from parents house. ?‍♂️

  22. Random stuff from the internet (not news)

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    18 minutes ago, The Panda said:

    Reading all this usually makes one want to stay away from marriage, but you can’t live your life without a partner. Especially in times like Covid where you need each other. Guess you have to be really careful and do a lot of background check before committing.

     

    In my opinion you can live your life without a partner, there are many people I know who are in their 70's & 80's doing exactly this and are healthy and happy. To each their own.

    I would rather live alone than signing a marriage document that can legally allow my partner to take my house/life earnings if she chooses to.

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