DishuBOSS
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Guys, I am not proud of what I did back in that phase of my life.
Also, I was being used by her, but it took me a really f**king long time to realize that. And once I knew the truth, I showed myself the door.
Months later, reconnected with a girl I used to like in my office.
Got involved, fell in love and now I sleep with her and the son she gave me
So this is what I have to say after all my experiences, LOVE is a powerful thing. It can change a person drastically.
It can turn you to worse but it could also lift you to new highs. So it depends what kind of person you fall in love with.
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Took some pics at my bro in law's wedding. Here are two shots of my son.
Used a frnd's Cannon E60. No editing yet.
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Long story, goes way back !
I was young and stupid, didnt know the difference between right and wrongs and thought I knew the best.
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^ Ohh JEEBUS !!!
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well done Dishu, and got the comics, they are awesome, thanks
You're welcome bhai. Is baar time nahi mila, warna next time expect something signed by an RC creative:)
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This is something which is out of my circle of influence, and them feeling guilty about it was never my concern.
I was just embarrassed to have that conversation with her.
Besides, I have been involved in things like premarital sex, and extra-marital affair so I don't think I have the moral ground to lecture someone about it.
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soccer..... thing..... logo......
That was intentional for getting this same reaction from you BEECHES !!!!
And here is my fav from tonight;
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^ I thought his Avatar was a condom, but then that soccer thing logo appeared
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^ Ab apne baap ko kya bolta main?
That too when he was raging on something stupid I did
PS: Pita ji ka haath kaafi tagda padta tha.
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Dad calling son "BC"....
My dad used to use this cuss a lot.
Even when we were around. So listening BC from him was not a big deal when he was going intense about something.
Good thing I only have a brother
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Reading all these stories made me think about my experiences.
And I cant THANK ALL OF YOU GUYS ENOUGH for all the help. Thanks guys
Right now, things are going fine. I have made myself clear, that I like the guy but that doesnt mean I approve of him.
They are getting to know each other and thats fine with me.
Believe it or not, I also talked to her about getting physical and sh*t. Told her she should be careful and protective of herself.
Use protection, no videos or pics (I wanted to kill myself during that conversation). I was staring into the floor as I told her all this, and when I finished she had this silly grin on her face while her eyes fixed on me.
I remembered when my mom tried to give me the talk and I gave her the same grin she gave me that day.
She has stopped crying and sobbing now and so life is bit easier for me.
I am kinda relieved as of now.
But again, THANKS GUYS !!!
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^ I know people with that kind of intelligence !
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People actually hate me for saying things like this, but honestly I dont think premarital sex is a sin.
They are adults and they can do any 'ahem' stuff they want ('bumping uglies' as Nemo likes to put it).
What I believe is, if I behave like a typical Indian father and say, "NO SEX AT ALL!" she might nod in front of me, but who knows what happens at her room when I am not there. I cant be there all the time or put a spycam in her room. Both of them are adults and can think for themselves. Though I dont believe they are the sharpest tools in the shed.
I have talked to her about getting physical, and what I have told her is this; 'There is a certain trust that you need to acquire before taking your relationship to the next (physical) level. I dont think having sex is a sin (Yes, I said that to her), and besides you are a big girl now. I cant dictate your life and you have to learn to take decisions for yourself. Some might go bad some might prove right, but its your life now. So whatever you do, think how much do you trust this guy and take time to know each other first.'
I am not that much worried about them getting physical. My major concerns are;
1. the future of their relationship, which is very clear to them right now but dark as sh*t to me... and,
2. the pain she might get if this fling wont work out. I have been in failed relationships and I know it hurts like hell.
I dont want my little girl to go through that agony.
So god forbid, but if that guy turns out to be an a**hole, I am going to go KRATOS on his a*s !!!!
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ok, then one chapter closed GA, down to another, find another book n****
like a boss also, dishu, just sit down, maybe take her out and talk with her man, seriously :|
and if she agrees with your views, next time take that boy along with you guys and have a nice talk
She wont dare go beyond what I will say. I know for sure.
If I will ask her to dump this guy, she wont ask any questions and will do it. Besides, she knows I could pack her bags overnight and deport her back to the motherland any day I want. She is not going to disobey me.
And I kinda liked what Avkash said about the boy, NEVER TO MEET HIM AGAIN.
I dont have a clear logic for why I like this idea, but it feels right to me.
I am confused :/
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Went to Fun n Food village this Sunday, and they were playing Justin Bieber's Baby on loop.
Everybody was dancing like crazy on that song. All I could see was a crowd of grown ups dancing (Indian Baraat Style) wearing nothing but undies.
Felt like one of those weird dreams :/
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Also, Nemo! How did u know the Uncle I mentioned is my Chacha and not Tau?
Pure guess ya koi super-mega deduction technique??
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well then as you obviously care about her this much, you should help her out.
you should ascertain what relation holds more value to you, her parents as chacha-chachi or the girl as a loving sister and act on going with that.
you can either be the gurdian angel to your sister in a selfless mode OR you can rat her to the parents to seek brownie points and keep away from controversy....
but what i do know is either approach works fine if you do it without guilt. if you remain in between w/o any decision and feel unrelenting guilt about not doing the right thing or not doing anything at all then it would do no one any good and would actually give you unneeded tension.
...so if your sis is that imp to you, go all out in her support. i am talking balls to the walls !
She means the world to me.
As far as our family goes, they have always left her under my watch.
So everything she did or does will be blamed on me.
And that is why I said, that I will be framed in future no matter what approach I will take.
Besides I am not planning to rat her out, but I dont know what else to do either.
Because if it had been me, the first thing I would have done is to notify my family.
personally i am the latter kind of person, the 'me before all' mentality and i am saying it only cause it's the internets, wont admit this to anyone IRL;
We all are 'me before all' people before we find someone we care about dude
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We used to be a joint family. My uncles and their families living in the same home.
Me and her were besties back in the days. She was my henchman, staying with me, sleeping with me. Tagging along wherever I go.
All my friends adore her too.
When I left home, she cried for nights.
Have always been the first one to wish me happy birthday.
Now, she wants me to take care of the situation for her.
One thing I am open to admit is that I am to be blamed for her irresponsible behaviour. I had always helped her in getting away with all the things she did. Never let her face her or my dad for the troubles she caused. And now she wants to me to do the same with this situation.
I have clearly told her that this is different. I cant handle this.
But she is insisting (read crying) that I do something about it.
As far as ignoring goes, I am a master at it. I dont care what most of my relatives are upto and I was never interested in other people's life.
But this girl is important to me!
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no need to invade their personal life as such unless she asks you too :|Pushy Bhai, their personal life ended the day she brought the guy with her to meet me (without informing me). After that she has constantly been asking me to suggest how they should proceed. I am least interested to get involved in a teenage fling, but this is something I cannot ignore.
I am not that kind of a person who pushes his nose into other's business. I have many other cousins who are doing whatever they want. But I am worried about this one because I love her so very much. And she has always been like my little girl (more than my sister). So yes, what goes in her life is my concern.
I have never asked any of my sisters (all cousins, I dont have any real sister) where they are going or whom they are seeing.
This one has always told me each and everything about her life and so have I.
So as far as 'NO NEED TO INVADE THEIR PERSONAL LIFE' goes, I will ask you the same question when you will have a kid of your own.
Or if you have one, please know that she is not just my cousin but also my child.
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"stay out of "fukcing" it"
Was that just a bad sentence or some new kind of insult ?
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^ Arrange marriage ??
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You didnt.
Sometimes you just got to lie.
Class redefined
it is a very different thing to meet everyday for hour and talk for hours, but to live in a house is a VERY different thing.
Everybody who marry the person they loved know this
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Mazaak mazaak main saari sacchayi bata gaye launde !! Badhiya