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  11. Heart broken ppl's club

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    KC my friend.. The problem is that even though you may not admit it, "You are still in Love with this girl"

     

    im not sure about this anymore or about her either.

     

    Understandably so.. You guys have a many years long history, you always loved her.. Her engagement to some other NRI, must have broken your heart, you must have tried to escape, throw her out of your mind, but she appeared again and again.. and you decided to stay just one last time. The problem is , there is no closure here, for either of you to stay or to move on.

     

    i agree with the no closure part, thats why i want to end it. this cant go on esp once she gets married.

     

    As I see it, there are only two ways in this situation. If you love her and want her.. it's not too late as yet.

     

    Take her out. Tell her that you love her and she is playing childish game. Mostly people tatoo to the names of their partners to prove the world or to themselves their love which they in their heart know, does not exist. When you are aware of your love for someone, it just flows and needs no tatoo or drama. So, tell her that there is still time. Ask her to break her engagement, get back to you and give this relationship a chance because even you know that she loves you. If she understads, support her, speak with parents and make it happen. Trust me this is not as filmy as it sounds and one of my best friend has done it and they are happy now. Tell her that marraige is not a joke. If she does not love that NRI, chances are two years down the line, her life, her fiancee's life and your life are all bound to be an unhappy one. So better be brave now and do something about it.

     

    :lol: Not a chance in hell. apart from the whole im not ready for marriage/dont love her/confused blah blah, her mom and mine are childhood friends and we wont stake their friendship for our sake. i dont know if she likes that guy or not but what i do know is she doesnt want to get married so soon. the problem is that her father just expired last year and a few months later there was this official proposal from those guys and her mother didnt want to risk losing 'itna accha rishta' given how her fathers death was a bit of mystery + just the dowry in their caste can go up as high as 50 lakhs.

     

     

    Or else, just decide to completely throw yourself out of her life. Meet her and tell her that you deny to be used as a "Good Friend" anymore. You had love to offer her, which she obviously does not need now, and you cannot be a "step gap arrangement" between her and her would be life partner. So you wish her well and are cutting all chords from her. And then DO THAT!

     

    i did that, including wishing & congratulating her. she thought i was taunting her and started crying. :ko::(

     

    this leaves us back where we started and as u said i dont see any sort of closure to this. but after yesterday's incident i do feel there wont be any communication between us for the next couple of months.

  12. Heart broken ppl's club

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    How about try the smart way: sit her down and tell her calmly that you don't want to speak to her any more.

     

     

    Have to tried telling her that she should go to hell and you never want to see her again? I find it extremely easy to ignore someone completely. Any self respecting person should stop calling you once you have ignored their calls enough time.

    off course i tried doing that. in fact i even tried to be a bit mean at times with her but we still patch up. the problem here is that we've known each other for almost a decade and still share a very special relationship. every time she's in a fix her brain is automatically programmed to call me.

  13. Heart broken ppl's club

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    BTW KC u need no advice, you have clearly seen through her plans, if any 1 else tells you otherwise dont believe them . Either she is lying regarding the tattoo or she must be really dumb to actually get that kind of tattoo. You have done everything necessary to avoid a potential extra marital affair situation after december and or save yourself from her landing up at your doorstep :lol: . now all you have to do is give me her number :fear:

     

    even i think she was joking about getting her fiancee's name tattoo'd. maybe that was just to rile me up, too bad she was the one who was pissed when the conversation ended. other little detail i skipped was that her future would be husband is a NRI and currently she has no plans of shifting abroad so..... :naughty::bigyellowgrin:

  14. Heart broken ppl's club

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    maybe agony aunt can help me out with this, so here goes.

     

    so my ex gf who got engaged recently calls me up and says that i accompany her to some tattoo parlour in bandra which i gladly refuse cause i think i might end up shelling the monies for it. later i enquire about what sort of tattoo she's planning to get and she says she gonna make 'miss u *her fiancee's name*' in some fancy font at which point im like WTF :mellow:

     

    so my question is how do i get her to not talk to me. i tried the easy way out (by abusing her) and the hard way (by ignoring her calls/msg etc) but after a short while we make up and end up hanging out together. i dont think she even wants to be 'just friends' and just a couple of weeks ago both of us had a rundown where she asked what sort of importance she had in my life to which i replied none....zero...zilch and she stopped talk to me until yesterday.

     

    now since her marriage is confirmed to be taking place in december i want her out of my life permanently. im sh*t scared that she might go all filmy and run from her marriage and end up at my doorstep which would be :suicide:

  17. Movie Discussion Thread

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    The deleted opening scene from Superman Returns

     

     

     

     

    Looked really good.....too bad the rest of the movie was kinda meh

     

    Superman Returns was pretty good, much better than the genric crap we get today *cough Green lantern/iron man 2 cough*

  19. Heart broken ppl's club

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    I made an apology video for my ex gf a few months back, asked a few of my friends from different countries to say " Sunil is sorry, forgive him and give him one chance" in the language of the respective countries and then combined the 5 responses into 1 clip and sent it to her. I made a huge mistake of including 1 of my other GF (due to which she was mad at me) in the video , when i went with flowers and chocolates , expecting her to be happy now , I was bombarded with more questions :wallbash: ,

    This guy has made a similar mistake by focusing on her boobs :fear:

     

     

     

    PS : I can find the apology video and share it over here, if you guys promise not to laugh at it :fear:

     

     

    why would anyone laugh at that.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    *poker face*

  25. Heart broken ppl's club

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    ^^ A messy goulash of your own making.

     

     

    I suggest you cut your losses and chase some white tail. You're 21 and there are plenty of good times to be had for the next decade.

    ignore the white girl part and this is the best advice you or anyone reading this thread will get.

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