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  2. Heart broken ppl's club

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    2nd time I'm posting here, same girl but this time it's more of a final breakup .

    Here's the story:

    I'm 24 and she's 25 and there are lots of cultural differences (caste, state, veg/non veg and all that stupid stuff). Anyway that wasn't a big factor for Us , but it would be for her family and relatives. And she has to get married in 2 years max, and she believes (and maybe rightly so) that I'm not mentally mature enough to get married in 2 years.

     

    On top of it, I'm kind of stuck in my career and I've got a job offer in Kolkata which would be a good career move. Of course that would mean me moving out of Bangalore and it'll diminish the time we spend together logarithmically .

     

    Plus I'm planning to go for higher education next year , so marriage just doesn't fit in my future plan anywhere.

     

    So we kinda mutually broke up today, but she was the one pursuing it more.

    It went kinda smooth, and it does seem to be better for both of us to break up right now.

    She's been in a lot of stress lately regarding marriage and according to her she would rather live sad but stress free life.

    Of course that means that she will get married in a year at max, and I will have to end all contacts with her.

     

    Not feeling too bad, but the future looks lonely. A new city and without the person I've loved for 3 years.

    Breakup's a bitch , and I'm not thinking of getting into a relationship for a long long time . Just can't handle it thrice .

     

     

     

     

     

    By the sound of it, the girl had moved on mentally even before you guys broke up. So, there is no reason for you to feel sad. What you have earned is a great experience and its amazing that all new beginnings are lined up ahead for you starting with a new location, new job, and obviously new friends to make.

     

    Take time to heal, find yourself, enjoy single-dom and visit Tantra in Parkstreet..

     

    You are a lucky chap to be single in Bong beauty world.. Cheers!!

  3. Heart broken ppl's club

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    You've got to start taking life a little easy. I guess you are sort of the intense serious kind of a guy who's loved and lost. And I can relate to that. My previous two relationships have gone like this: I had a crush on this girl for Three years and never mustered the courage to ask her out. Finally I did and I was in a committed relationship for 2 years before we broke up. She was my best friend and had known her for more than 10 years. Now we don't talk. The next I had a crush on too for a long time but I couldn't even dare talk to her cause I was the nerd and she was one of those popular good looking chicks. Eventually things turned out well and I did ask her out and I was committed in that relationship too. But her folks forced her to marry someone else (we were 21 then) and after that she refused to even acknowledge my existence. and i bummed out real hard. But now I am with this girl who is like the best thing that has happened to me in my life. But I have realised that in our society, there are many things that are beyond our own control. But don't ever think that your life is dark or lonely. You have your friends, family and heck even IVG to look forward to! You are in the initial stages of your career and you should start focussing on that. Jo hua bura hua but it happened for the best of you both. Cheer up man. There's a whole world out there waiting for you. Besides Bong chicks are HOT! :P

     

     

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  5. Marriage and Gaming : I do?

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    Just curious... how do you guys deal with it if your SO feels you shouldn't be gaming or that gaming is a kids thing and you should grow up? :scratchchin:

     

    Make her sit through one of your games. I suggest Uncharted. She will get to see a dude on screen, understand that its not easy to move ahead in a game and might even start to understand why you like it so much. Or show her some games where you have big boobs rosies jumping around on the screen, with their arse moving more than the pole dancers. She will definitely understand that the video games are no more for kids!

     

    If she is very angry.. get her to play burnout paradise (It's my favorite game!) I recommend it for all girls out there. Awesome stress buster!

     

    If she still doesn't show any interest in your gaming.. Try and balance your time. Give her attention in between gaming as you clear a level, pause your game, go take a walk talk to her and then come back to gaming. Women mostly nag when they feel ignored. Keep her involved and she wont complain.

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  10. ~The TV Shows Thread~

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    " orange is the new black" is my latest favorite show. The characters, situations and performances keeps you involved episode to episode. Try it .

    ( note for All NSFW thread fans: Lots of lesbian stuff in there as well! It's a women' s prison story you know! )

  16. The Travel Thread

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    Stay at the Oberoi, recently they even had a wonderful offer for about 450 Usd which included a lot of extras, the hotel industry there has had a terrible few months you can really negotiate well with them

     

     

     

     

    Yup.. Hubby booked Oberoi. Time to go beach happy!! Yay!

  20. The Careers Thread

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    i want to do journo ... because i feel id be good at searching for info .. i feel i have the communication skills required for the job .. and the persisstance ... from what i have read u need .. comm skills .. persisstance .. ability to find another way in when doors are slammed at ur face ... i have these skills .... but this is from what iv read .. there must be alot more i dont know about im just scared .. because engg seems like a safe option ... but its not something im interested in... also if i take up journo .. i can also take up psychology another subject i really like .. and if this endeavour doesnt go as planned i can do MBA after BA ... which was my ultimate goal anyway ... (MBA after engg )

     

     

    My advice: Go meet a career counselor. Take some psychometric assessments and visualize yourself in the profession you finally decide. Can you do that job for the next 30 years of your life, every day? What motivates you- Money? Role? Social responsibility? Fame? Glamour?

     

    Get your reasons right. Assess your strength- your potential and also your weaknesses. Speak with people of different professions that you have shortlisted. Make a list of question and ask them all.

     

    Do not do what you "think" is lucrative or safe.

     

    You are at an important juncture of your life. Yes, you may change career even 5 years down the line, but if you get clarity now and you work towards what you want and not what you "think" you want- you are more likely to succeed.

     

    All the best!

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