Thanks for your help Brotha, the curse armor set did it, i used only the wrist, chest i think. and the third one i kept it at valkyrie might something, cooldown is i felt very important to use runics. Also one mistake i did with the last tries is that i was using valkyrie armors but i did not de-equip good enchantments i had on prior armors thus i was getting stat debufs, this game does not auto de-equip enchantments on armor change.
With solving this issues i got a build with stats along the line of
Runin - 185
Defence - 170
Vitality - 70 [Still don't know WTF this stat does]
Luck - 75 [Still don't know WTF this stat does]
Cooldown - 75
Father and son what an apt name for the platinum, all them feels came rushing down, i didn't like kratos from the first 3 games, but Kratos and Atreus make the best team [yes there i said it bye batman and robin]. The combat is sublime when a mad valkryie queen is not kicking your arse. This combat system has now ruined so many games for me, the environments are jaw dropping gorgeous, i never knew stones could look this beautiful, the realm travel mechanism is freaking marvelous, the game is so ahead of it's time .
Now spoiler territory, you have been warned before continuing. i don't know how realistic this is to norse mythology but i don't think atreus is loki, when the great giant builder built walls for odin, it was loki not thor who dealt with his horse and him upon the completion of said walls, also while in some area of the game i saw a body with loki like horned armor and cape. The game did change some stuff here and there, but like in norse mythology, baldor does technically die at the hands of loki and the world serpant. I really want atreus as his own character, feels like a awesome character to handle and the bantar he does is on par with peter parker spidey.
I hope ragnarok happens in the 3rd game, and unlike joel from TLOU, Kratos stays around till the absolute end of the 3rd game. And boy give mimir more dialogs, and more exploration of nifelheim and mispelheim or whatever new realms, it's been a long time since mortal kombat deception's konquest mode that i got to explore various realms, loot treasure and have a hellova time doing it.
Now at a loss of words, but damn enjoyed playing this brilliant creation.