Big Boss Posted May 1, 2022 Report Share Posted May 1, 2022 36 minutes ago, niks_flashbullet said: Got this message from one of my friends on Facebook, some Men learn things the hard way. ?♂️ I posted this on my fb story & so many angry replies ? "For months I was so angry at you for posting those marriage related laws" What an idiot. Any truth that is uncomfortable made him angry. Also a member of "it won't happen to me bro" club. My suggestion is don't waste much time on him. Just say I told you so and ask him to get lost under his wife's pallu. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
niks_flashbullet Posted May 1, 2022 Report Share Posted May 1, 2022 18 minutes ago, The Panda said: Reading all this usually makes one want to stay away from marriage, but you can’t live your life without a partner. Especially in times like Covid where you need each other. Guess you have to be really careful and do a lot of background check before committing. In my opinion you can live your life without a partner, there are many people I know who are in their 70's & 80's doing exactly this and are healthy and happy. To each their own. I would rather live alone than signing a marriage document that can legally allow my partner to take my house/life earnings if she chooses to. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted May 1, 2022 Report Share Posted May 1, 2022 18 minutes ago, The Panda said: Reading all this usually makes one want to stay away from marriage, but you can’t live your life without a partner. Especially in times like Covid where you need each other. Guess you have to be really careful and do a lot of background check before committing. At least have a live-in relationship for 3 years before legally committing. No amount of background check will reveal the true nature. Just make sure that you won't fall into "consensual sex on promise of marriage=rape" trap if you decide to breakup after live-in. 60% of rape cases in India are under this category only. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
niks_flashbullet Posted May 1, 2022 Report Share Posted May 1, 2022 2 minutes ago, Big Boss said: "For months I was so angry at you for posting those marriage related laws" What an idiot. Any truth that is uncomfortable made him angry. Also a member of "it won't happen to me bro" club. My suggestion is don't waste much time on him. Just say I told you so and ask him to get lost under his wife's pallu. Agreed bro, most live their life thinking it won't happen to me. Yup, no point wasting my time with him now that he has accepted the new job offer & moving away from parents house. ?♂️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Panda Posted May 1, 2022 Report Share Posted May 1, 2022 (edited) 32 minutes ago, Big Boss said: At least have a live-in relationship for 3 years before legally committing. No amount of background check will reveal the true nature. Just make sure that you won't fall into "consensual sex on promise of marriage=rape" trap if you decide to breakup after live-in. 60% of rape cases in India are under this category only. 60%?! Holy sh*t! I didn’t know it was THIS bad! What’s the judgement like for most of these cases? @niks_flashbullet That even I dread too! Edited May 1, 2022 by The Panda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted May 1, 2022 Report Share Posted May 1, 2022 (edited) 2 hours ago, The Panda said: 60%?! Holy sh*t! I didn’t know it was THIS bad! What’s the judgement like for most of these cases? @niks_flashbullet That even I dread too! Most end in marriages or out of court settlement. Then girl and guy both approach high court for quashing or even close case in lower courts by giving settlement agreements. In many cases police file B report and case never goes to trial. Some end like this: https://mensdayout.com/21-year-old-man-dies-by-suicide-after-girlfriend-files-rape-case-blackmails-him-for-money/ Edited May 1, 2022 by Big Boss 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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SpearHea:D Posted May 1, 2022 Report Share Posted May 1, 2022 5 hours ago, Right said: Even gods bow down to the indestructible will of steel. Quality of keep going no matter the odds. Massive respect 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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iamX Posted May 1, 2022 Report Share Posted May 1, 2022 8 hours ago, niks_flashbullet said: Got this message from one of my friends on Facebook, some Men learn things the hard way. ?♂️ I posted this on my fb story & so many angry replies ? Title of the book? I'm curious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
niks_flashbullet Posted May 2, 2022 Report Share Posted May 2, 2022 12 hours ago, iamX said: Title of the book? I'm curious. The rational male by Rollo Tomassi, another one I suggested him was 'The manipulated man' by Esther Vilar. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radicaldude Posted May 2, 2022 Report Share Posted May 2, 2022 Some can't even take a joke ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radicaldude Posted May 2, 2022 Report Share Posted May 2, 2022 On 5/1/2022 at 2:50 PM, The Panda said: Reading all this usually makes one want to stay away from marriage, but you can’t live your life without a partner. Especially in times like Covid where you need each other. Guess you have to be really careful and do a lot of background check before committing. Your face might permanently resemble your ivg dp in case you marry just for the heck of it. Read about MGTOW and embrace it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radicaldude Posted May 2, 2022 Report Share Posted May 2, 2022 On 5/1/2022 at 2:25 PM, niks_flashbullet said: Got this message from one of my friends on Facebook, some Men learn things the hard way. ?♂️ I posted this on my fb story & so many angry replies ? What did you post btw? I haven't checked this thread in a while now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
niks_flashbullet Posted May 2, 2022 Report Share Posted May 2, 2022 4 minutes ago, radicaldude said: What did you post btw? I haven't checked this thread in a while now. I posted on my facebook a lot about laws that are abused such as 498(a) & how a woman can manipulate a man & make him do things he normally wouldn't such as move away from his parents. He ignored the advice & now is in the process of moving to another city for a new job. So many red flags but still he got married. ?♂️ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radicaldude Posted May 2, 2022 Report Share Posted May 2, 2022 6 minutes ago, niks_flashbullet said: I posted on my facebook a lot about laws that are abused such as 498(a) & how a woman can manipulate a man & make him do things he normally wouldn't such as move away from his parents. He ignored the advice & now is in the process of moving to another city for a new job. So many red flags but still he got married. ?♂️ I think liberation of women and marriages are not compatible in some cases. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted May 2, 2022 Report Share Posted May 2, 2022 Goddamn 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted May 2, 2022 Report Share Posted May 2, 2022 Oh boy this guy is now targeting famous Indian couples. His fan following is about to blow up 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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KnackChap Posted May 2, 2022 Report Share Posted May 2, 2022 On 5/1/2022 at 2:50 PM, The Panda said: Reading all this usually makes one want to stay away from marriage, but you can’t live your life without a partner. Especially in times like Covid where you need each other. Guess you have to be really careful and do a lot of background check before committing. kar le bhai. It wont be as rosy as you see on reels or other sm but hopefully not as bad as this thread makes it out unless you get tied up with a really mean girl. If youre in a relationship then its better you spend time & make sure you go on trips so just the 2 of you can spend time together. Im of the firm belief that if you really want to know someone then you should stay with them for a few days. If its arranged make sure your family (or extended ) knows her family well. Worst to worst if you still have doubts do ask for a pre-nup agreement and convince her its good for both of you. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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