praveer Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 (edited) Has she made any advances that could've suggested that she wants more from you? If not then Just leave things as it is. Don't say/suggest/hint anything Otherwise it will turn out awkward for both of you. Trust me on this Yes, I had to avoid kissing her. I guess that says for itself. Edited September 11, 2011 by praveer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 (edited) You never know. Sometimes, you look at a girl and you think that she is totally into you by the way she is acting/ behaving. Just stay cool and be friends with her. You don't need to say anything as it would get a bit weird. I wouldn't like it either if a girl randomly tells me that we are just friends when I haven't made a move directly. She hasn't really done anything yet and is just giving some hints. Just don't pay attention and she will be fine. Just read your latest post. Hmm, seems like it's getting a bit freaky. I don't know what to say now. Edited September 11, 2011 by Avishkar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 Yes, I had to avoid kissing her. I guess that says for itself. Was she inebriated when she gave you a wet one? Have you touched 2nd base with her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 (edited) Was she inebriated when she gave you a wet one? As I said, both of us were drunk. Have you touched 2nd base with her? I am cautious and careful even when I'm drunk. I knew I didn't wanted to go far so I avoided every chance. Beside it isn't socially acceptable by my standards (evetnhough it was a nightclub). Edited September 11, 2011 by praveer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 You never know. Sometimes, you look at a girl and you think that she is totally into you by the way she is acting/ behaving. Just stay cool and be friends with her. You don't need to say anything as it would get a bit weird. I wouldn't like it either if a girl randomly tells me that we are just friends when I haven't made a move directly. She hasn't really done anything yet and is just giving some hints. Just don't pay attention and she will be fine. Just read your latest post. Hmm, seems like it's getting a bit freaky. I don't know what to say now. You find it freaky? And here i thought you of all people would know what to do best in such a situation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 As I said, both of us were drunk. What i was trying to ask you was if she playfully kissed you cos she was senseless-piss-drunk? Or did she want to kiss you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 Have you touched 2nd base with her in the past,i.e, before the nighclub? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 (edited) What i was trying to ask you was if she playfully kissed you cos she was senseless-piss-drunk? Or did she want to kiss you? Well we were dancing, and while doing so she tried to kiss me and I had to look the other way to avoid it while trying to make it look less awkward. Have you touched 2nd base with her in the past,i.e, before the nighclub? Ofcourse not I always saw her as my friend eventhough I admit myself getting attracted to her a couple of times. Edited September 11, 2011 by praveer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 Well we were dancing, while doing so she tried to kiss me and I had to look the other way to avoid it. But do you think it might've been playful? The next time she does it at a nightclub try to trick her into kissing your cheek instead of planting one on your lips. Ofcourse not I always saw her as my friend eventhough I admit myself getting attracted to her a couple of times. Ok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 (edited) You find it freaky? And here i thought you of all people would know what to do best in such a situation Well this is because I have never faced such a situation. I haven't really backed out of such situations. If it's a random person then it's a different case and you can always shut them down but not with friends. I feel what the person here is doing is wrong. I mean friends are supposed to help each other out. If she wants to kiss you and make out with you and if that is what makes her happy, then you should let her do so as that's what friendship and caring is all about. That's why most of your female friends let you have fun with them in clubs and when they are drunk as they are your true friends and want you to be happy Edited September 11, 2011 by Avishkar 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 But do you think it might've been playful? I have no idea, it was dark I was drunk and kinda freaked out. The next time she does it at a nightclub try to trick her into kissing your cheek instead of planting one on your lips. which is kinda what I did. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killzone123 Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 If she wants to kiss you and make out with you and if that is what makes her happy, then you should let her do so as that's what friendship and caring is all about. That's why most of your female friends let you have fun with them in clubs and when they are drunk as they are your true friends and want you to be happy love you way of thinking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 (edited) Edited September 11, 2011 by Avishkar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 (edited) Ifeel what the person here is doing is wrong. I mean friends are supposed to help each other out. If she wants to kiss you and make out with you and if that is what makes her happy, then you should let her do so as that's what friendship and caring is all about. God no ! Next thing you'll tell me to hit the home base if she asks for it. I don't want friends with benefits. Especially if I myself am looking for a stable relationship with someone else. Edited September 11, 2011 by praveer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bird Bird Bird Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 My my ! Pure masala thread. :popcorn: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sufyan Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 Avishkar deserves a custom title Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 Well this is because I have never faced such a situation. I haven't really backed out of such situations. If it's a random person then it's a different case and you can always shut them down but not with friends. I feel what the person here is doing is wrong. I mean friends are supposed to help each other out. If she wants to kiss you and make out with you and if that is what makes her happy, then you should let her do so as that's what friendship and caring is all about. That's why most of your female friends let you have fun with them in clubs and when they are drunk as they are your true friends and want you to be happy I was once at this Christmas Party where i myself witnessed a drunk female initiate a lip-lock with a guy who happened to be her close friend. She was so embarrassed the next morning that she went around telling everyone that the guy forced himself on her. So you need to play your cards very carefully with some women. I have no idea, it was dark I was drunk and kinda freaked out. which is kinda what I did. Ok. All i can tell you is to leave things as it is. Act normal around her and everything should be smooth sailing from there on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 (edited) God no ! Next thing you'll tell me to hit the home base if she asks for it. I don't want friends with benefits. Especially if I myself am looking for a stable relationship with someone else. It's funny how many people think this way. I mean if you tell your friends to do question 1-3 of an assignment while you do 4-6 and then you all just divide the work and save time, isn't that also Friends with Benefits? Similarly, in an exam if you'll copy from each other, that's Friends with Benefits too. So if you both can please each other by making out, then that's not acceptable? I don't understand how friendship works for you people P.S.: Don't judge. I was just putting forth an opinion. Not necessary that I practise it with everyone. Edited September 11, 2011 by Avishkar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 My my ! Pure masala thread. :popcorn: Buster! You haven't paid for the ticket! j/k Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 11, 2011 Report Share Posted September 11, 2011 It's funny how many people think this way. I mean if you tell your friends to do question 1-3 of an assignment while you do 4-6 and then you all just divide the work and save time, isn't that also Friends with Benefits? Similarly, in an exam if you'll copy from each other, that's Friends with Benefits too. So if you both can please each other by making out, then that's not acceptable? I don't understand how friendship works for you people Sigh ... if life were only that simple Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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