devil_angel Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ash_ Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Avinities- It's spreading Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angad. Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 @S2-less guy Did you have any track-app installed? It'd be easy to get it back if so.  Yeah...had 3-4 of them installed....tried the samsung dive thing as well....even Plan B app in marketplace. Nothing worked....seems like the as*holes knew what they had to do after stealing it. I dont understand why people need to steal something so personal.....saala wallet hi le jaata. It really is a terrible feeling when you lose a cell, and its worse when it gets stolen. I still feel depressed when i visualize it in my mind how it might have got stolen . It was like my baby for me !  Hope you get it back soon.I had the scare of my life when i forgot my S2 at the workplace,luckily a ward boy saw it and called my friend.Phew!!sigh of relief. Reinstated my belief that there are honest people left in this world  There are loads of honest people yaar....its a pity that some bast*rds have no feelings or moral values. For them its just a bit of cash which they would spend in maximum 10 days, but for me (being a person who is so attached to his gadgets) it was an event that would haunt me for life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Django_3101 Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 (edited) This thread doesn't belong to you anymore  you should go to this thread now : http://www.indianvideogamer.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=24888&st=720  Edited January 18, 2012 by Django_3101 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angad. Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 This thread doesn't belong to you anymore  you should go to this thread now : http://www.indianvideogamer.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=24888&st=720   lol...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 I can never show arrogance, its a trait that simply doesn't exists in me. As for flirting I agree I missed my chances big time and this is probably the most important reason why she stopped feeling attracted towards me.  There definitely is some chemistry, even now....everyone and their mother thinks we are a couple when they see us together. We definitely get a lot more touchy than two people who are "just friends" would normally be and she would be kissing my whole face including my neck whenever she is 'Ãn the mood'. This one time she was drunk as f**k and I was taking her home, as soon as we get inside and I close the door she jumps on me and tried to take my shirt off, I was sort of stunned (in my defence she puked while on her way home and hence her mouth was smelling bad ). But I took her to her bed and stayed with her for a while until she was asleep and then left.  This other time when I invited her to my place, we watched a movie and a couple of TV shows together and cuddled, at one point I noticed her looking at my face and smiling for 10-15 seconds straight. I was pretty sure that she wanted me to kiss her , I looked back at her thought I should make a move and then fearing rejection I told myself no and instead just smiled at her....I think this was the point where she stopped being attracted to me. A couple of weeks later I took her out to dinner and we were just discussing about things and then just so it happened I asked told her as per why our friendship took off so fast & smooth when we are so different from each other. She remained quite for a while that maybe she shouldn't mention it, I insisted and then she mentioned that before we met she had a small crush on me but never had a reason to talk to come and talk to me until the day I did so...but then went on to say that she doesn't has a crush on me anymore. Two days later I tell her that I like her (in the worst possible way and situation one can imagine) and she tells me that she just doesn't feels the same way for me and she never did....and here I am now a month land half later. The day of her birthday (9th dec) she told me that she loves me a lot and that she never wants to lose me and then sat close to me while both of us along with her friends were hanging out at her place and having a couple of drinks. A couple of minutes later she got up (as she was resting her head on my lap) and then turned to me and said "stay away from me please" then went away for 5 minutes and then came back and sat next to me again. I was too drunk that time to make anything out of it...lol   I think I know the exact reason why she never gave much thought about me. You she has had this incredible obsession with my best guy friend since the late 2010. Somewhere around the mid of 2011 she was starting to get over that as she stopped meeting/seeing my guy friend, I didn't know anything about this and she didn't knew that we two were such close friends either. Now somewhere around the time when me and her were really starting to hit it off I decided to invite her and her friend to a hangout with a couple of my friends, and as you can guess my best guy friend was also there. Upon seeing him everything came back to her at once, she was all over him again and since then she's been crying and doing all sorts of teenage drama in front of me and everyone else for that guy (the guy told her straight off that he doesn't wanna be with her, the guy doesn't really thinks nice of her and leaves no chance to insult her as he has this image of hers build up in his mind that she is sort of desperate).  There's much more to all this but this is all I'm going to reveal.   Dear Praveer, You are a nice guy and you like to be the "Nice Guy". The girl was definitely giving you all the right signals initially.. Kissing you on the neck , smiling and cuddling, jumping on you when drunk..but you tried and behaved nice when she was horny and so in a way rejected her. The girl obviously bust have felt foolish, guilty, embarrassed,angry,hurt and rejected (Yes! we girls can feel a cocktail of emotions all at the same time) and so she thought it best to keep you as a good friend rather than expect anything more from you. Also, once she met your guy friend she got into flashback and obviously chose him above you since you were anyway just a good friend and not sexually attracted to her (so she must have thought!)  Point is, the girl was never into you.. yes, she found you attractive and would have liked to have a good time with you which you did not cooperate with and so she friend zoned you. So, be a nice friend and let it run the same way. For future, be receptive to woman's intention and moves, understand when she wants the distance and when she wants you to hold her tight and "do something". One can be a nice guy and still can be romantic and sensual in dealing with woman. It's an art and some men just have it.. most don't. They either come across as desperate, or bastards or too brotherly/fatherly!! (lolz)  Be friends with her, have a good time, give her space and continue dating. You may find that perfect girl who will stir passion and love in you and hope that is mutual!!  Asked out my seven year crush and got friend-zoned. I may never love again  Aww.. But that's because you must have been a "Good Friend" for past 7 years!! How do you expect the girl to suddenly make you her prince charming coming back from seven year exile.. Next time..take 7 days max ok?? And you will fall in love again. Guaranteed!  You guys should post your stories up on reddit.  What's wrong with you? Why are you routing my patients to other places?? Even when you know my expertise in relationship related problems ! don't you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angad. Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 For future, be receptive to woman's intention and moves, understand when she wants the distance and when she wants you to hold her tight and "do something". One can be a nice guy and still can be romantic and sensual in dealing with woman. Â Â Phew.....why do girls have all the fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Phew.....why do girls have all the fun   Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angad. Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Â Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Use this situation to your advantage boyo. Dramatize your sob story and pull out that loser card, girls will easily fall for u.... esp the 20+ one who can identify with your situation since they themselves got dumped by their prince charming after getting their cherries popped. Have fun and then move on to the next one. Â Â Damn.. Is that why you have been narrating your sob stories to me all this while??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KnackChap Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 Damn.. Is that why you have been narrating your sob stories to me all this while??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 (edited) KC with a purpose ! Â Â Dear Praveer, You are a nice guy and you like to be the "Nice Guy". The girl was definitely giving you all the right signals initially.. Kissing you on the neck , smiling and cuddling, jumping on you when drunk..but you tried and behaved nice when she was horny and so in a way rejected her. The girl obviously bust have felt foolish, guilty, embarrassed,angry,hurt and rejected (Yes! we girls can feel a cocktail of emotions all at the same time) and so she thought it best to keep you as a good friend rather than expect anything more from you. Also, once she met your guy friend she got into flashback and obviously chose him above you since you were anyway just a good friend and not sexually attracted to her (so she must have thought!) Â Point is, the girl was never into you.. yes, she found you attractive and would have liked to have a good time with you which you did not cooperate with and so she friend zoned you. So, be a nice friend and let it run the same way. For future, be receptive to woman's intention and moves, understand when she wants the distance and when she wants you to hold her tight and "do something". One can be a nice guy and still can be romantic and sensual in dealing with woman. It's an art and some men just have it.. most don't. They either come across as desperate, or bastards or too brotherly/fatherly!! (lolz) Â Be friends with her, have a good time, give her space and continue dating. You may find that perfect girl who will stir passion and love in you and hope that is mutual!! If I could do anything to have a shot again, I would. She does thinks I sometimes become overprotective but I stopped doing that now, I don't even talk to her anymore now unless she initiates the conversation and I'm still a strange and mysterious person to her (hell I come off as a strange/weird guy to everyone). She can be really moody at times and bitchy as well but when she is at her best, she really is the sweetest girl I've ever known. Edited January 18, 2012 by praveer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angad. Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 I don't even talk to her anymore now unless she initiates the conversation and I'm still a strange and mysterious person to her (hell I come off as a strange/weird guy to everyone). She can be really moody at times and bitchy as well but when she is at her best, she really is the sweetest girl I've ever known. Â I dont think thats the right way to go bro.....trust me it just messes it up more....dont lose your friendship dude. From what I can understand, seems like you two share an awesome bond....you both understand each other better than others. Even if it doesnt materialize into something more than just friendship, I still feel its not worth it to lose that bond and friendship, which will eventually happen if you dont talk to her unless she talks first. My suggestion is keep things normal and easy....try to divert ur mind from the lovey-dovey feelings for her, but yet keep that friendship going. You still have a loooooooooooooooooooong life ahead and you have no idea whats in store. Lots of things are still to happen in your life....so please brotha....dont lose that friendship, as its easy to lose it in such situations....trust me...have gone through it many times ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 KC with a purpose ! Â Â Â If I could do anything to have a shot again, I would. She does thinks I sometimes become overprotective but I stopped doing that now, I don't even talk to her anymore now unless she initiates the conversation and I'm still a strange and mysterious person to her (hell I come off as a strange/weird guy to everyone). She can be really moody at times and bitchy as well but when she is at her best, she really is the sweetest girl I've ever known. Â Â Of course, only a strange guy would not take his chance when the girl is all drunk, and drooling and giving kisses and asking for your help to change her clothes.. And that too when she lis attracted to you and you liked her.. How weird is that?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avkash Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 very strange indeed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 (edited) Of course, only a strange guy would not take his chance when the girl is all drunk, and drooling and giving kisses and asking for your help to change her clothes.. And that too when she lis attracted to you and you liked her.. How weird is that?? In my defence again....she was having a terrible breath cause she threw up on the way home. Tbh that was pretty much the reason why I didn't go for it that night, turns out that was THE night. The other night when she was at my place, that was completely my fault I agree. Edited January 18, 2012 by praveer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avkash Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 dude, there are times you need to ignore the bad breath, trust me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 I would have her drink something first to get rid of the bad breath and then continued, if it really was that bad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ash_ Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 dude, there are times you need to ignore the bad breath, trust me you seem to be hiding something, come on tell us Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted January 18, 2012 Report Share Posted January 18, 2012 I just wish I was drunk that time instead of being 100% sober lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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