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Anyway, the worst case scenario is what I have faced yesterday. I came across this really beautiful and sweet girl a few days back and she drops a bombshell yesterday when she said that she thinks she is not good enough for me :ko:. It is very hard to get out of this situation as you have to be very careful with your choice of words. You can't just say simply that you are not as good as she thinks you are and you just have to keep putting it in her head that she is better than what she thinks of herself. Let's see how long this takes.

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Yes, there are 3 men or every single girl who may wanna take her out, flirt or have sex with but it is very tough to find even 1 right guy who is emotionally, physically and mentally on the same wavelength as you. I am not even mentioning the financial/status aspect as yet. That explains a lot of casual dating women indulge in before they settle for someone, many a times someone there parents find them, and trust me, it is also the case with many men I know.

 

Too bad. Women like determined, successful, focused guys with a potential of bright future.. You mess with your studies/career chances are your girl will leave you too and then bad marks, low job and forever alone!!

Yeh toh sirf bolne ke liye hota hai

 

Girls keep on saying they prefer a guy who has a good sense of humour , who will support her emotionally

But when the time comes they will either choose a macho or a wealthy guy

 

You might not be like this but the other girls (which make the majority) are ..

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Yeh toh sirf bolne ke liye hota hai

 

Girls keep on saying they prefer a guy who has a good sense of humour , who will support her emotionally

But when the time comes they will either choose a macho or a wealthy guy

 

You might not be like this but the other girls (which make the majority) are ..

 

 

And isn't that a smart thing to do? Who wants a full time joker or a psychiatrist for a partner?

Every girl must and should look for a partner who matches her emotionally, physically, socially and financially. No harm in that! I am very much a normal girl and I am lucky to have found a guy who can make me laugh, is a great friend and support, is macho and pretty much settled financially too.

 

I would suggest the same for guys. Find a girl who complements you on all count.. not just in look or humor department.

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^ not appropriate to use here. :|

 

+1

and surprised to see people having a laugh over it...that was a sensible advice given by megz,and even if it did not make sense to you...you should be more careful with your words...thats not the way to talk to a lady

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And isn't that a smart thing to do? Who wants a full time joker or a psychiatrist for a partner?

Every girl must and should look for a partner who matches her emotionally, physically, socially and financially. No harm in that! I am very much a normal girl and I am lucky to have found a guy who can make me laugh, is a great friend and support, is macho and pretty much settled financially too.

 

I would suggest the same for guys. Find a girl who complements you on all count.. not just in look or humor department.

 

Financially? Please elaborate.

 

And in this godforsaken country, most girls/woman given the chance will shamelessly chase after wealth irrespective of social standing let alone financial. And then justify themselves with irrationality when we question their morals. Its not as if we men are any different.

 

Your advise is sound. But i find it hard to believe that its coming from a hopelessly romantic individual like yourself! :blink:

 

Not everyone in this world can be as lucky as you are. :)

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@Phaseolus:- Well said buddy, my thoughts exactly!

I HATE to admit it but thats true, They do have that Factor and Power to attract men. (Any Girl im speaking here, not just the ideal/beautiful/gorgeous girls).

 

Kaash ladko ke paas bhi aisa power hota....

Better not to give a Damn about it and think that you will find one girl someday and she will be special for you... whether you have chosen her or she has chosen you or parents.... Anyway it can go.

Bro boys too have such powers, trust me.

 

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what did i miss what did amg post

 

 

 

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:mellow:

 

 

And I know Megz is not gonna agree to what I'm gonna say but I'll say it anyway.

Most of the girls are never satisfied with what you are. It's all good in the start but with time they ask you to become someone else. They are no more satisfied with what you are. It's the same with most of the guys too. So if you say that girls look for understanding, sensible, etc etc type of guy, and even if they find somebody like that, there will be a time when they will have problems with him too.(IMO)

Just saying though... :)

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:mellow:

 

 

And I know Megz is not gonna agree to what I'm gonna say but I'll say it anyway.

Most of the girls are never satisfied with what you are. It's all good in the start but with time they ask you to become someone else. They are no more satisfied with what you are. It's the same with most of the guys too. So if you say that girls look for understanding, sensible, etc etc type of guy, and even if they find somebody like that, there will be a time when they will have problems with him too.(IMO)

Just saying though... :)

Agreed! What they want always changes. For a girl if you are good today, tomorrow someone else will be perfect.

 

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+1

and surprised to see people having a laugh over it...that was a sensible advice given by megz,and even if it did not make sense to you...you should be more careful with your words...thats not the way to talk to a lady

 

:lol:

 

'not the way to talk to a lady' :lol:

 

Geez, can't people take a joke here or are you guys too heartbroken? 'Bitch please' is more of a funny gesture and doesn't literally refer to Megz as a "bitch". :doh:

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+1

and surprised to see people having a laugh over it...that was a sensible advice given by megz,and even if it did not make sense to you...you should be more careful with your words...thats not the way to talk to a lady

:lol:

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Also to most guys here... good luck following Megz's advice of waiting for a girl who meets your emotional wavelengths, is fun to be with, isn't after your money, always makes you happy and loves you for who you are. Chances are you won't get someone with all these qualities together and if you do, well you are delusional.

 

Just have fun and enjoy life. Find a girl who wants to have fun with you and then have fun with each other and try stuff. Make sure you meet her friends before you are getting bored with her and introduce her to your friends as well. Continue this cycle and enjoy life. People can judge me all they want but I don't care. I have ended almost every thing on a good note and I make it clear what I want out of a 'relationship' instead of lying, etc which people do when trying to get in to a perfect relationship. I know many.

 

Oh and yeah, most girls, specially Indians, are very superficial and that is a fact. Being around with girls from other countries and Indian girls, I believe to be in a good position to state this than some people here who 'claim' otherwise. As for Indian guys, many of them are real assholes too. But the thing is there are some very nice guys whom I have met and after a breakup, the girls keep telling their friends what an 'a*s' that guy was. It's pretty :lol:. Same things happen other way around.

 

So at the end of the day, if you are below 25 and looking to settle down with a girl forever, then good luck with that. My only suggestion would be to have fun and concentrate on your career. Girls will come and go, but your career won't. And once you are successful, multiply your success rate with girls by 2x :)

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Also to most guys here... good luck following Megz's advice of waiting for a girl who meets your emotional wavelengths, is fun to be with, isn't after your money, always makes you happy and loves you for who you are. Chances are you won't get someone with all these qualities together and if you do, well you are delusional.

 

Just have fun and enjoy life. Find a girl who wants to have fun with you and then have fun with each other and try stuff. Make sure you meet her friends before you are getting bored with her and introduce her to your friends as well. Continue this cycle and enjoy life. People can judge me all they want but I don't care. I have ended almost every thing on a good note and I make it clear what I want out of a 'relationship' instead of lying, etc which people do when trying to get in to a perfect relationship. I know many.

 

Oh and yeah, most girls, specially Indians, are very superficial and that is a fact. Being around with girls from other countries and Indian girls, I believe to be in a good position to state this than some people here who 'claim' otherwise. As for Indian guys, many of them are real assholes too. But the thing is there are some very nice guys whom I have met and after a breakup, the girls keep telling their friends what an 'a*s' that guy was. It's pretty :lol:. Same things happen other way around.

 

So at the end of the day, if you are below 25 and looking to settle down with a girl forever, then good luck with that. My only suggestion would be to have fun and concentrate on your career. Girls will come and go, but your career won't. And once you are successful, multiply your success rate with girls by 2x :)

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