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and surprised to see people having a laugh over it...that was a sensible advice given by megz,and even if it did not make sense to you...you should be more careful with your words...thats not the way to talk to a lady

 

 

Bhaijaan and Udham, Thank you but..to each his own really, there are people in this world who would rather have sex with random girls and be friends with their lesbian wife..SO, it's ok!

 

Agreed! What they want always changes. For a girl if you are good today, tomorrow someone else will be perfect.

 

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I agree that a girls's mind keep changing. But I have met and known guys who were even more confused about their relationship status. Like this guy I know for instance, wanted friends with benefit, he got one and then he never used to like if the girl chose to spend some good time with other friends. So then he named her slut and got all emo. Now, if the idea was to keep it casual, the girl just followed it to the T. So, in this scenario it was the guy who was confused about what he really wanted.

 

Besides, both men and women evolve. We are not what we were 5 years back and we will not be what we are 5 years hence. Only relationship that lasts , lasts since both the partner accepts the change in the person they are with. Relationship sure are complicated things. If you don't have time or courage for one, keep it simple and mingle when opportunity strike!

 

And Avi- Marrying a lesbian is a brilliant idea..Go for it!

 

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I agree that a girls's mind keep changing. But I have met and known guys who were even more confused about their relationship status. Like this guy I know for instance, wanted friends with benefit, he got one and then he never used to like if the girl chose to spend some good time with other friends. So then he named her slut and got all emo. Now, if the idea was to keep it casual, the girl just followed it to the T. So, in this scenario it was the guy who was confused about what he really wanted.

 

Isolated incident. Doesn't tally with the general consensus :)

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Bhaijaan and Udham, Thank you but..to each his own really, there are people in this world who would rather have sex with random girls and be friends with their lesbian wife..SO, it's ok!

 

 

Boom ! Headshot :raygun:

 

and :good: for the 'FRIENDS' reference !

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:lol:

 

Yeah, to each his own, really. And keep your judgements to yourself. It's funny how despite your long and sincere advices, i'm still the one mending heartbroken people while you are an agony aunt :P.

 

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Yeah, to each his own, really. And keep your judgements to yourself. It's funny how despite your long and sincere advices, i'm still the one mending heartbroken people while you are an agony aunt :P.

 

 

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+1 with Udham and Obaid bro. well it was a funny remark....but to post that to someone who's giving you a valid piece of advice and is trying to help you out is mean IMO. not the best of gestures I've seen.

 

Amd if we read closely, even though megz's and avi's philosophies differ, both were giving the same piece of advice at the core...which is "Concentrate on your studies and career." the rest of both their advice is upto the reader to decide :P

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Also to most guys here... good luck following Megz's advice of waiting for a girl who meets your emotional wavelengths, is fun to be with, isn't after your money, always makes you happy and loves you for who you are. Chances are you won't get someone with all these qualities together and if you do, well you are delusional.

 

Just have fun and enjoy life. Find a girl who wants to have fun with you and then have fun with each other and try stuff. Make sure you meet her friends before you are getting bored with her and introduce her to your friends as well. Continue this cycle and enjoy life. People can judge me all they want but I don't care. I have ended almost every thing on a good note and I make it clear what I want out of a 'relationship' instead of lying, etc which people do when trying to get in to a perfect relationship. I know many.

 

Oh and yeah, most girls, specially Indians, are very superficial and that is a fact. Being around with girls from other countries and Indian girls, I believe to be in a good position to state this than some people here who 'claim' otherwise. As for Indian guys, many of them are real assholes too. But the thing is there are some very nice guys whom I have met and after a breakup, the girls keep telling their friends what an 'a*s' that guy was. It's pretty :lol:. Same things happen other way around.

 

So at the end of the day, if you are below 25 and looking to settle down with a girl forever, then good luck with that. My only suggestion would be to have fun and concentrate on your career. Girls will come and go, but your career won't. And once you are successful, multiply your success rate with girls by 2x :)

While I agree with most of what you said, I'll disagree with the first paragraph. It's perfectly possibly to find all these qualities in one girl.

And yes it's 100% correct that Indian guys usually act like assholes here, without any mannerism and are very crude...that's one reason I tend to not hang out around them, infact I barely know more than 5-6 Indians here.

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Here's for all the men who wanna know what your GF/Wife secretly want from you..

 

 

1. All girls secretly love a guy who can sing.(MEGA-Turn-On)

 

2. Most girls love cudlles

 

3.We don't need you to be Superman. We just need you to be there.

 

4.Don't ever try to impress us by cursing or fighting. It doesn't work; you just look like a jerk.

 

5. Every girl wants to feel special, even if its just to you.

 

6.Being able to make your girl laugh = MAJOR brownie points!

 

7. We absolutely HATE it when you break a promise to us. It completely devastates us. Don't make promises if you can't keep them.

 

8 .Here's something that girls are tought: When a guy says that you're hot, he's looking at your body. When he says that you're pretty, he's looking at your face. When he says that you're beautiful, he's looking at your heart. Remember that when you complement a girl....... Ask any girl... She'll have no idea what the hell a guy means when he says that she's "cute".

 

9. We can tell when you aren't listening, and, yeah, it kind of pisses us off. If were boring you, at least have the decency to tell us!

 

10. When we say the we're cold, we either want you to come closer or give us your jacket. Tip: If you really want to impress your girl, hold her tight and put your jacket around her while you're still wearing it. Its amazingly romantic! (as long as you don't grope her)

 

11. Hugs can mean more than kisses sometimes.

 

12 . If you wait for the perfect moment, the perfect moment will pass you by. In other words, if you want to ask her out, just do it!

 

13. We'd really appreciate it if you didn't hold the things we do during our time of the month against us. It isn't exactly our fault, and we aren't being ourselves.

 

14.We want the same respect that you give to other guys, but we really don't want you to treat us like them...(chest bumbs are never ok)

 

15 .Never cheat!!! Anything you say or do with another girl that you don't want us to know is considered cheating.We.Will.Kill.You.If.We.See.You.Slow.Dancing.With.Another.Girl.Without.Telling.Us.

 

16. It's weird when you take longer to get ready than we do....

 

17. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.

 

18. When you say you don't like it when we wear makeup, don't just leave it at that. It helps to tell us why.

 

19. It absolutely floors us when you know our favorite color, shoe size, flower, T.V. show, movie, artist, etc. See, we aren't that hard to please.

 

20. This one may seem weird. We love keeping your hoodies/jackets because: they remind us of you, they smell like you, and it makes us feel like you're there holding us even when you aren't.

 

21 NEVER EVER HIT A GIRL!!!!!!!!! Even if she hits you first....it's just wrong.

 

22.All girls want to be told I LOVE YOU now and then and possibly whisper it in her ear when you are having a moment.

 

23. Usually, when a girl is sarcastically mean to you, it means she's attracted to you, but she's afraid that she'll be showing too much.

 

24. When you calm a girl down (and believe me, you will need to do this someday), try your hardest to make her laugh, but never make her feel stupid for being so worked up in the first place.

 

25. Also if shes gettin hurt in anyway stand up for her don't stand and watch her get her shes your girlfriend for fudge sake!!

 

26. We don't want to hear how cool your ex-girlfriend/neighbour/best gal friend is. even movies like 'He's Just Not That Into You' depress us.

 

27. When we say everything is 'fine', it generally means everything is absolutely horrible and we are on the brink of falling to pieces.. Don't just say 'ok' when we say we don't want to talk about it.

 

28. Silent Treatment + Short Answers + Not Smiling or Laughing + Evil Looks = YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG.

 

.29. Allow us an entry into your world. your games, your friend, your passion.. it excites a girl the most!

 

 

30. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend -- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts or hoodie’s, and a really pretty piece of jewelry. Also we like Chivalry and caring- Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you're dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren't dropping her off, call to be sure she's home safely. We think that’s really cute and sweet.

 

Ooh..there is a lot..but some other time!

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Here's for all the men who wanna know what your GF/Wife secretly want from you..

 

 

1. All girls secretly love a guy who can sing.(MEGA-Turn-On)

 

2. Most girls love cudlles

 

6.Being able to make your girl laugh = MAJOR brownie points!

 

9. We can tell when you aren't listening, and, yeah, it kind of pisses us off. If were boring you, at least have the decency to tell us!

 

13. We'd really appreciate it if you didn't hold the things we do during our time of the month against us. It isn't exactly our fault, and we aren't being ourselves.

 

19. It absolutely floors us when you know our favorite color, shoe size, flower, T.V. show, movie, artist, etc. See, we aren't that hard to please.

 

20. This one may seem weird. We love keeping your hoodies/jackets because: they remind us of you, they smell like you, and it makes us feel like you're there holding us even when you aren't.

 

22.All girls want to be told I LOVE YOU now and then and possibly whisper it in her ear when you are having a moment.

 

27. When we say everything is 'fine', it generally means everything is absolutely horrible and we are on the brink of falling to pieces.. Don't just say 'ok' when we say we don't want to talk about it.

 

30. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend -- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts or hoodie’s, and a really pretty piece of jewelry. Also we like Chivalry and caring- Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you're dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren't dropping her off, call to be sure she's home safely. We think that’s really cute and sweet.

 

 

I can attest to most points I've selected from your list from personal experience. That #27, haha I've done that many times knowing well it'll piss her off, and it does. I was hoping I could train the 'stupid' out of her :P, but it doesn't work.

 

#13 :fogug: Unfair. I get all kindsa flak for all weird things during that time of the month. I don't even know how a person's mind can be that messed up for that duration of time! :ko:

 

I have a pretty piece of jewelry alone left on my list I guess. But that ain't gonna happen until I get a permanent job :P Them diamonds be too expensive, and wtf is this antique jewelry bullcrap.... way way too expensive.

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Here's for all the men who wanna know what your GF/Wife secretly want from you..

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Ooh..there is a lot..but some other time!

 

So much... just to get one girl. <_<

Well all I want from a girl is to be loyal,understanding and just be herself and not act like someone else. :mellow:

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:rofl:, Seriously guys..:lol: Amazing theories..

Maa kasam.. itna bhi free time hota hai logon ke paas.

 

Well, Its unfair to judge Indian Guys (most cases) and girls when staying abroad for most of the period (20-25 Years).... considering them as foolish/Stupid/a**holes. Its how they grow up with their society,their buddies,friends circle...... which is a total different scenario in any foreign countries(Most don't give a damn about multiple relationships/breakups there.. unlike here). Agar doston ke saath milke masti nahi ki.. daru nahi pi.. comments pass nahi kiye.. hangouts... movies... nightouts...nahi ki. then my friend you haven't enjoyed Life yet. And im pretty sure 90% of the Indians have gone through these phases in their life. As for how Indians behave in foreign countries I don't have much idea, i never stayed long enough in any foreign countries (Apart from Dhaka :wallbash:).. so I can't comment. [ @ Praveer bete. ]

 

If to satisfy/get one girl u need to do/take care so many things then... Bhaad me jaaye ladkiyan hum bajaye harmonia.

 

@Rohan... Nailed it. Pretty much what an Ideal man wants from a girl. No crap, straight to the point.

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