Bhpian Bali Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 (edited) thanks Edited May 31, 2013 by Bhpian Bali Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pushy Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 my questions xactly as titman though, if u r serious with her and u zeroed her to be her ur other half, then u should clearly tell ur parents that there's this girl that u would wanna meet which u r seeing and that u r serious about it, else if it's just one of ur ex's, then let it be and nope, no such conditions by my parents, they have told me to do whatever i wanna do, love marriage, arrange marriage, doesn't matter which religion coz they no into religion and sh*t, all are humans that's their vision, so really, not much of a hassle for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 not much of a hassle for me Ladki to mile lekin @Bhpian, It comes down to how you both can handle leaving separate from your family. Pretty sure both families wont agree at all. I had a case in Pune itself when a Muslim girl married to a hindu marathi guy. Both worked in my previous company. Both the families abandoned them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 i have no idea what to say to bhp here as it is an advanced stage of relationship- marriage, dealing with parents etc. But going off on a tangential line, i can say is personally for me the whole idea of inter religion affair and marriage is pretty damn exciting particularly in a heavily religious country like ours. Like the forbidden fruit. also amongst all the girls i have interacted with, muslim girls >>> any other religion in terms of pure beauty and grace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Nemo Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 @ nemo.. you are correct. Muslim girls are like that.. they are more religious and have the answer to a lot of things that I wouldnt have a clue about. she truly inspires me with her teachings. i do not think all are overtly religious. i have had been in contact with as many extremely religious and casually religious muslim girls as i have been with hindu girls, though i have not had friends who have "believing in burkha" levels of religious affinity; not because i discriminate (i do not) but because girls coming from that high levels of religiousness generally do not mix with non muslims, leave alone non muslim guys. But yeah, i do find some strange unexplained attractiveness towards muslim girls. I do not know if it is a non controversial thing to say but if all things (personality, maturity) equal, i would be much happier to have a muslim girl as a life long companion than any other. tough luck for you man if your families do not accept your love for each other, i honestly dont know how i or anyone can advice you without knowing both sets of parents with some level of history. Hell i dont even know how i would react if i were in such a situation, though i feel my folks are pretty chilled out in this regards, they have some close friends across religion boundaries have never shown any displeasure in common things like sharing food, dining together, attending close family functions etc. I hope your predicament gets solved amicably. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sach4life Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Talking about liking your friend, I have had a pretty pleasant experience in the topic and would like to share it. I got close to a girl, very close as a friend in the first year of college. I started liking her. She asked me one day who I like. I thought she knew that I like her as I kind of gave the signals. I thought she is expecting her name and so I took her name. Her reaction wasnot really encouraging. She said that she shouldnt have asked this. Lets try to forget what you said. Just think as if this didnt happen. Then I asked her ehat she felt about me and she said its not like there is any problem with me. Its just that she doesnt want to think about all his and just concentrate on her studies and career. I felt bad. I always though she also liked me. Then she started feeling a bit odd sometimes with me as obviously she knew I like her. Thrn I thought I shouldnt talk to her much and tried to talk less with her. Then she talked to me and said so you gonna just leave the friendship? I said no I wont. Remained close friends with her. I kept on asking her what she thinks about me. She finally said that she cant think like that about me ever and I should stop thinking like that about me. I was crushed. Felt very bad and well still remained close friends with her as I always thought she somewhere is lieing. I kept hope and remained her best friend. It was only a couple of months and sbe finally confessed that she always have had feelings for me and that she didnt tell me all that brcause she didnt want to be in a relationship as she always wanted to be in one once she is on her path to a career she wants to be in(she had told me all this earlier as well when I didnt even confessed that I like her). We agreed to remain friends and eait for a few hears to be in a relationship. This went on for a few weeks and it became really complicated and difficult to be in that kind of a confused situation. After that she confessed to me that she loves me and well, its been 9-10 months now of our relationship and we have never been happier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 Talking about liking your friend, I have had a pretty pleasant experience in the topic and would like to share it. I got close to a girl, very close as a friend in the first year of college. I started liking her. She asked me one day who I like. I thought she knew that I like her as I kind of gave the signals. I thought she is expecting her name and so I took her name. Her reaction wasnot really encouraging. She said that she shouldnt have asked this. Lets try to forget what you said. Just think as if this didnt happen. Then I asked her ehat she felt about me and she said its not like there is any problem with me. Its just that she doesnt want to think about all his and just concentrate on her studies and career. I felt bad. I always though she also liked me. Then she started feeling a bit odd sometimes with me as obviously she knew I like her. Thrn I thought I shouldnt talk to her much and tried to talk less with her. Then she talked to me and said so you gonna just leave the friendship? I said no I wont. Remained close friends with her. I kept on asking her what she thinks about me. She finally said that she cant think like that about me ever and I should stop thinking like that about me. I was crushed. Felt very bad and well still remained close friends with her as I always thought she somewhere is lieing. I kept hope and remained her best friend. It was only a couple of months and sbe finally confessed that she always have had feelings for me and that she didnt tell me all that brcause she didnt want to be in a relationship as she always wanted to be in one once she is on her path to a career she wants to be in(she had told me all this earlier as well when I didnt even confessed that I like her). We agreed to remain friends and eait for a few hears to be in a relationship. This went on for a few weeks and it became really complicated and difficult to be in that kind of a confused situation. After that she confessed to me that she loves me and well, its been 9-10 months now of our relationship and we have never been happier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pushy Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 wow, thats good bro, awesome Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sach4life Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 (edited) I dont know if sarcastic or something else Edited May 31, 2013 by Sach4life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sach4life Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 wow, thats good bro, awesome Thanx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 no sarcasm, just admiration. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sach4life Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 no sarcasm, just admiration. Then thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pushy Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 n3mo is cool as brother, he no be cocky or bullshittymen btw, n3mo, y u no on FB? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CM Sunny Posted May 31, 2013 Report Share Posted May 31, 2013 (edited) Unlike you guys I think keep at it . After get friend zoned by two girls I kept on talking to them , doing a lot of casual flirt . After almost a year , one of them broke up with her boyfriend because she had a major crush on me and she felt like she was cheating on him and it gave me a lot of personal satisfaction rejecting the other one . Keep at it man , show that you are cool , improve your image and enjoy. kya faltu advice de raha sacky you have to take his current case in consideration. The best advice is what Joe Cool said to him, improve your base, try talking to as many girl as possible & get rid of the approach anxiety. Also he doesn't needs to 'act' or show that he is cool, if he works on his basics, dress well, stays fit ( ty lord for weight loss ), get a decent level of self confidence, he'll give good vibes on his own. Plus I feel the friend zone usually happens when people act overly nice with ulterior motives. No one to blame except themselves. Sometime you might not be in the friendzone & things are going well but you might blow up the window to escalate things ( ) & stuff turns down hill Still a man must always move on. P.S: College teachers are always hotter, the worst part is that they know it Edited May 31, 2013 by Sunny Coffee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cash Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 i do not think all are overtly religious. i have had been in contact with as many extremely religious and casually religious muslim girls as i have been with hindu girls, though i have not had friends who have "believing in burkha" levels of religious affinity; not because i discriminate (i do not) but because girls coming from that high levels of religiousness generally do not mix with non muslims, leave alone non muslim guys. But yeah, i do find some strange unexplained attractiveness towards muslim girls. I do not know if it is a non controversial thing to say but if all things (personality, maturity) equal, i would be much happier to have a muslim girl as a life long companion than any other. tough luck for you man if your families do not accept your love for each other, i honestly dont know how i or anyone can advice you without knowing both sets of parents with some level of history. Hell i dont even know how i would react if i were in such a situation, though i feel my folks are pretty chilled out in this regards, they have some close friends across religion boundaries have never shown any displeasure in common things like sharing food, dining together, attending close family functions etc. I hope your predicament gets solved amicably. Not true at all but the guys part must be true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ram Dante Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 (edited) Talking about liking your friend, I have had a pretty pleasant experience in the topic and would like to share it. I got close to a girl, very close as a friend in the first year of college. I started liking her. She asked me one day who I like. I thought she knew that I like her as I kind of gave the signals. I thought she is expecting her name and so I took her name. Her reaction wasnot really encouraging. She said that she shouldnt have asked this. Lets try to forget what you said. Just think as if this didnt happen. Then I asked her ehat she felt about me and she said its not like there is any problem with me. Its just that she doesnt want to think about all his and just concentrate on her studies and career. I felt bad. I always though she also liked me. Then she started feeling a bit odd sometimes with me as obviously she knew I like her. Thrn I thought I shouldnt talk to her much and tried to talk less with her. Then she talked to me and said so you gonna just leave the friendship? I said no I wont. Remained close friends with her. I kept on asking her what she thinks about me. She finally said that she cant think like that about me ever and I should stop thinking like that about me. I was crushed. Felt very bad and well still remained close friends with her as I always thought she somewhere is lieing. I kept hope and remained her best friend. It was only a couple of months and sbe finally confessed that she always have had feelings for me and that she didnt tell me all that brcause she didnt want to be in a relationship as she always wanted to be in one once she is on her path to a career she wants to be in(she had told me all this earlier as well when I didnt even confessed that I like her). We agreed to remain friends and eait for a few hears to be in a relationship. This went on for a few weeks and it became really complicated and difficult to be in that kind of a confused situation. After that she confessed to me that she loves me and well, its been 9-10 months now of our relationship and we have never been happier. The Endurance and perseverance!! Edited June 1, 2013 by Ram Dante 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 I hope same happens with you GA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 n3mo is cool as brother, he no be cocky or bullshittymen btw, n3mo, y u no on FB? My n**** not on fb cause it is the lamers. When you get all the playfield on ivg why go elsewhere Not true at all but the guys part must be true. Probably, but me being a guy will only have experience in that field. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sach4life Posted June 1, 2013 Report Share Posted June 1, 2013 The Endurance and perseverance!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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