The Wolfy among us Posted November 14, 2013 Report Share Posted November 14, 2013 How is someone terrible at getting in touch? Anyways, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikku_hot123 Posted November 14, 2013 Report Share Posted November 14, 2013 This proves how much we guys are good at exoneration.anyways. Good. Best of luck Sent from my GT-I9001 using Tapatalk 4 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted November 14, 2013 Report Share Posted November 14, 2013 This proves how much we guys are good at exoneration.anyways. Good. Best of luck Sent from my GT-I9001 using Tapatalk 4 To be fair the reason for this is because the ball usually ends up in the girl's court, they are the ones who kick start it and drive it forward. No matter how much you dislike it but the way it has always worked is that guys approach and women reciprocate, so guys will believe in all sort of things if women decide not to respond for some reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted November 14, 2013 Report Share Posted November 14, 2013 I didn't because she kept apologising over and over again for getting back so late and said that she's terrible at getting in touch with people. How many messages did you send her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted November 14, 2013 Report Share Posted November 14, 2013 (edited) One message followed by a call a week later. She called me yesterday night but I missed it as I was out with friends so she left a voicemail where she basically said something along the lines of hey it's me and I know I've been an absolute tit to you for not getting back to you earlier and I am sorry for that. And then asked me to give her a call back. I rang her back which she missed, again ! But then she called back after a couple of minutes and we spoke for a while where she apologized again like maybe a couple of times more. Edited November 14, 2013 by praveer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted November 14, 2013 Report Share Posted November 14, 2013 One message followed by a call a week later. She called me yesterday night but I missed it as I was out with friends so she left a voicemail where she basically said something along the lines of hey it's me and I know I've been an absolute tit to you for not getting back to you earlier and I am sorry for that. And then asked me to give her a call back. I rang her back which she missed, again ! But then she called back after a couple of minutes and we spoke for a while where she apologized again like maybe a couple of times more. Ok ...anyways i'm happy for you since its working out! Good luck!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CM Sunny Posted November 14, 2013 Report Share Posted November 14, 2013 I love myself <3Such true, Much Love @pv: best of luck with the girl bro, trust me afaik you, just don't over think and you'll get her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defender487 Posted November 14, 2013 Report Share Posted November 14, 2013 (edited) Good for zu praveer I think I was wrong Tapatalk Edited November 14, 2013 by Defender487 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted November 19, 2013 Report Share Posted November 19, 2013 Uh so, she called yesterday. And now we're going to do something next week, since she's away this weekend for an audition for Star Wars and I'm away as well. Woohoo!! And keep your expectations in check. Have fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madmage Posted November 19, 2013 Report Share Posted November 19, 2013 Uh so, she called yesterday. And now we're going to do something next week, since she's away this weekend for an audition for Star Wars and I'm away as well. I think the line you are looking for is expectations in check keep you must Woohoo!! And keep your expectations in check. Have fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanjosh Posted November 19, 2013 Report Share Posted November 19, 2013 Weird people are weird Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted November 19, 2013 Report Share Posted November 19, 2013 Uh so, she called yesterday. And now we're going to do something next week, since she's away this weekend for an audition for Star Wars and I'm away as well. Cosplaying as Princess Leia? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosh Posted November 20, 2013 Report Share Posted November 20, 2013 C3PO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted December 4, 2013 Report Share Posted December 4, 2013 (edited) Update I have a situation here (seems like I always do), I've only seen her once since then (which was last week and I had an awesome time) because the timings are so messed up, but we stay in touch through text every now and then. Now we were suppose to go for a formal dinner with my mates this Monday (I invited her to that when I saw her last week) but I found out that the person who was organising it f**ked up the dates because the reservation was actually made for next Monday (9th Dec). The issue here is that I wanted to ask her out proper on that night (because I don't like to keep things in between where I don't know if we are going out just as friends or more) but now that the dinner isn't happening until next week, I am not sure how I am suppose to get this to work as we are both leaving the country around Thursday/Friday next week for holidays which means organising something before that might be tough. I was going to ask her to meet me today but she got sick yesterday with stomach flu so that isn't happening either (and yes she did get sick, she didn't lie), I told her to let me know if she wants to hang out later this week when she gets better otherwise I'll see her next Monday at the dinner...she said she'll do that. I guess I could send her a text friday asking if she's doing well and see where it goes but I donno. I obviously like her and I do not want to keep this thing hanging around till we get back, because once we do we have our finals, which means I might not see her until January end, and I fear by the time that happens it will be too late. I don't want this to blow because of bloody Christmas holidays ! EDIT: After the dinner the plan is to go out clubbing, I could instead ask her if she wants to leave the club as it's too loud to have a conversation and ask her to come back with me to my place for some drinks, watch some TV and just chill before we part for holidays. Hope that isn't too forward. Edited December 4, 2013 by praveer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defender487 Posted December 4, 2013 Report Share Posted December 4, 2013 r u asking our permission bro shud i do dat or not or is it right or not ? or asking for plan b which is not available bottom line follow ur heart n if u want her surprise her at every moment when she ll b with u so dat she wont forget u even in her holidays or Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LagWarriorZergey Posted December 4, 2013 Report Share Posted December 4, 2013 I am no hook up expert by any means but this is how i would approach it. Let her be for the week end. Just check up on her to c how she is, don't make any plans then. Friends f**ked up the dates for the dinner.. no issues, since u had a formal date in mind, being alone with her is a plus. Let her know the complete plan beforehand though, like till the clubbing part. Now as the dinner go along, you will have a feel of how things will go. Try talking about more personal things, not only d usual hobbies u share n all. If she freely open to dat and shows some interest.. great. When it comes to clubbing.. get her close and make it personal. If dat too goes great and she gives in with the up close n personal dance and grind.. well just ask her if she wants to go back to ur place for some Drinks and talks dats all. If she accepts to go back to ur place..try being as physical as possible. If you end up getting laid or hitting any bases (first, second or third).. keep in touch and you can ask her out when yall are back from the holidays. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanjosh Posted December 4, 2013 Report Share Posted December 4, 2013 Call her when she's on the plane and tell her something is wrong with the left phalange Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven Angel Posted December 4, 2013 Report Share Posted December 4, 2013 ^^Nice one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosh Posted December 4, 2013 Report Share Posted December 4, 2013 Yeah nice one. Although there's no filange. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted December 4, 2013 Report Share Posted December 4, 2013 Update I have a situation here (seems like I always do), I've only seen her once since then (which was last week and I had an awesome time) because the timings are so messed up, but we stay in touch through text every now and then. Now we were suppose to go for a formal dinner with my mates this Monday (I invited her to that when I saw her last week) but I found out that the person who was organising it f**ked up the dates because the reservation was actually made for next Monday (9th Dec). The issue here is that I wanted to ask her out proper on that night (because I don't like to keep things in between where I don't know if we are going out just as friends or more) but now that the dinner isn't happening until next week, I am not sure how I am suppose to get this to work as we are both leaving the country around Thursday/Friday next week for holidays which means organising something before that might be tough. I was going to ask her to meet me today but she got sick yesterday with stomach flu so that isn't happening either (and yes she did get sick, she didn't lie), I told her to let me know if she wants to hang out later this week when she gets better otherwise I'll see her next Monday at the dinner...she said she'll do that. I guess I could send her a text friday asking if she's doing well and see where it goes but I donno. I obviously like her and I do not want to keep this thing hanging around till we get back, because once we do we have our finals, which means I might not see her until January end, and I fear by the time that happens it will be too late. I don't want this to blow because of bloody Christmas holidays ! EDIT: After the dinner the plan is to go out clubbing, I could instead ask her if she wants to leave the club as it's too loud to have a conversation and ask her to come back with me to my place for some drinks, watch some TV and just chill before we part for holidays. Hope that isn't too forward. You could just wait till Jan end. Considering that both she and yourself are students, the finals are more important. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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