egg man Posted February 8, 2014 Report Share Posted February 8, 2014 (edited) It happened yesterday. The wound is raw and the pain is intense. Sharing helps... Breakup I guess ?? Don't worry . I'm in the same boat too. Got dumped for on the eve of my Birthday by the girl I was dating for an NRI. My suggestion: 1. Join a Gym ; nothing beats sadness then knowing that all the time and energy you had spent towards other person can now all be spent towards yourself now. Everything you do, you do it for yourself. 2) Forget about revenge. 3). Get talking to another girl ASAP . You need to fill the void and emptiness with something ; something temporary and meaningless would do.A fling would do. I met this other girl online who stays very close to my place and we're now chatting and meeting a lot . It helped me a lot with the emotional pain. Now instead of being a lonely looser; I'm invested in chasing a new person again and it has , to a major extent, taken away my mind from the betrayal I had. Edited February 8, 2014 by egg man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
younussm Posted February 8, 2014 Report Share Posted February 8, 2014 Time to share my story too . I really love the girl .We basically are relatives/family friends .We know each other really well .Hit up on cals/texts almost 24/7.For the past few days I literally started to see some changes in her .Now matter how much busy she used to be in office and at home she definetly used to give me a cal or leave me a msg saying she would be getting back to me after sometime or the other .These things changed a bit for the past week. She is pretty straightforward girl and doesn't hide anything. I asked her what's wrong ..etc.. She said there's nothing wrong and as she wasn't well she didn't feel good . She doesn't believe in love or kind of things .She has started to mention about her colleagues a lot .Previously she hasn't done that .I know I trust her but all these changes in the past week making me feel insecure .I'm losing interest in the things I used to do gaming music etc . What should I do ? How should I keep my ego and negative thoughts in control ? Its been a hell of a week Sent from my Nexus 4 using Tapatalk 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ph3N0M Posted February 8, 2014 Report Share Posted February 8, 2014 Read the last 3-4 pages and I am curious to know what happened to Praveer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right Posted February 8, 2014 Report Share Posted February 8, 2014 Read the last 3-4 pages and I am curious to know what happened to Praveer. Still not laid. :/ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 Well a different kinda query now. So I've been talking to this girl on WhatsApp for sometime now. She looked quite homely and reserved kinda girl from FB pics. Then yesterday we met for the first time. She was quite unlike how I imagined her to be. Extremely hot IRL and very outspoken. Caught me off guard. I am usually shy around new people (and moreso in front of hot chicks) and she seemed extremely casual and cool. Anyway we ended up taking a walk and then had dinner . And we talked about casual things like her work, how was her day and stuff like that. TBH, I was quite nervous throughout but somehow managed to seem confident (or so I think ) and we had a decent time. We're planning to meet again this weekend. Any tips on what or what I shouldn't do that day. It would be our second date and I want to sweep her off her feet. :-D I was thinking Bowling + Coffee + movie + Dinner plan. Any tips or suggestions to over Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Wolfy among us Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 Bowling + Coffee + movie + Dinner plan. Too long bro. If you aren't planning to go back to her place, then i suggest just a coffee and movie, or bowling and dinner. Also, Just be natural. This sweeping her off her feet mostly doesn't work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 Bowling + Coffee + movie + Dinner plan. Too long bro. If you aren't planning to go back to her place, then i suggest just a coffee and movie, or bowling and dinner. Also, Just be natural. This sweeping her off her feet mostly doesn't work. Ofcourse I don't mind her coming back to my place , but think it would be too early to do so. Hmm, I guess I better ask her first :-D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right Posted February 11, 2014 Report Share Posted February 11, 2014 (edited) Yeah bowling+ coffee +movie + dinner is quite lamba plan. Keep something for later I think you should do bowling + coffee, day-date, attempt no bases. Then a movie + pizza date, you can hit first base here. Do it in evening. Then comes dinner + movie date, try going second base. Dinner first and then a 1030 show movie. This will set you for finale. Congrats and best of luck. Edited February 11, 2014 by Udham Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avkash Posted February 13, 2014 Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 Still not laid. :/ abbey chal, PV Bond hai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right Posted February 13, 2014 Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 Lol...uski Golden Gun to mein do saal se dekh reha hoon, jaam padi hai, chalti hi nahi. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Wolfy among us Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 I'm sure Praveer will have an entry here by the end of the day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 Happy valentines day guys. Guys with no valentine today ..enjoy your gaming day! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Right Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 I'm sure Praveer will have an entry here by the end of the day. So many people would have made peace with their "hand" by the end of today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 Ok ..coming back to my thing. I have a question. So I met the girl twice till now and I asked her out for dinner today (V day). She (has night shift) said she has lots of work and can't come. But she wants to hang out tomorrow (weekend) . What should I make out of it: 1) She's planning to friendzone me and that's why she just doesn't want to go out on Vday 2) She might think it's too early to give this any kind of romantic attachment 3) She might actually have a lot of work Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Wolfy among us Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 How did you meet her? I think she's spooked of the VDay thing. Take her out on the weekend. More time to spend anyways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 How did you meet her? I think she's spooked of the VDay thing. Take her out on the weekend. More time to spend anyways. I was changing my place. So on behalf of my owner I put up the ads of my existing place on FB. Then many people started contacting me, and I started chatting back with all the hot girl (yeah ). She was one of the few who replied and then we started chatting there, then whatsapp and finally we met few times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phreak Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 Happy valentines day guys. Guys with no valentine today ..enjoy your gaming day! 99% of IVG Ok ..coming back to my thing. I have a question. So I met the girl twice till now and I asked her out for dinner today (V day). She (has night shift) said she has lots of work and can't come. But she wants to hang out tomorrow (weekend) . What should I make out of it: 1) She's planning to friendzone me and that's why she just doesn't want to go out on Vday 2) She might think it's too early to give this any kind of romantic attachment 3) She might actually have a lot of work 4) She already got a date. Sorry bud. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 99% of IVG Sorry bud. That's a scary possibility. But I doubt it since she's new to the city and company and her shift does start at 9. Anyway meeting her tomorrow, let's see. :-P Sent using a mobile device. Forgive my typo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanjosh Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 Ok ..coming back to my thing. I have a question. So I met the girl twice till now and I asked her out for dinner today (V day). She (has night shift) said she has lots of work and can't come. But she wants to hang out tomorrow (weekend) . What should I make out of it: 1) She's planning to friendzone me and that's why she just doesn't want to go out on Vday 2) She might think it's too early to give this any kind of romantic attachment 3) She might actually have a lot of work 2 or 3 more likely Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playstation Posted February 14, 2014 Report Share Posted February 14, 2014 . Then I found out that some of her life goals were exactly the same as mine, ie. visiting Antarctica and climbing Everest on an expedition, thought this might help you...but Everest Expedition these days more about money than actual mountaineering experience required. I am talking about Rs 40-50lacs here ..though i know someone whose climbing cost Rs 20lacs but that was quite some time back. Also you need good source to get the license to climb....usually they are pre book for a long time to come. The top sherpa agency can help in this case if you go through them.... Antartica is different game if you want to go in for as deep expedition instead of just going to those tourist islands....Bengal governemnt has been planning for antartica expedition for a long time but the cost is so high (i am talking 20-30 crores) that the team that is part of it will be lucky if they get a chance to go in their life time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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