pArth Posted March 10, 2014 Report Share Posted March 10, 2014 +1. About me: cool guy!!!!! :rofl: Tags: cool. WTF this guy! Hobbies - stamps, coins .. o.O such wow much interesting very taxi driver On a serious note, something very similar happened to my friend last month. His girlfriend broke up with him AFTER their parents had talked and were going to start arrangements for their engagement. It was a 7 year relationship and the reason was quite similar to eggys, because my friend isn't settled yet and he is doing MS in Canada since one year. He come over here to talk to the girl and try and sort things out.... the girl wouldn't pick up his calls so he went outside where she works.. and that girl didnt even stop when she saw him ( after over 1 year !) and drove off on her scooty! f**king bitch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted March 10, 2014 Report Share Posted March 10, 2014 He come over here to talk to the girl and try and sort things out.... the girl wouldn't pick up his calls so he went outside where she works.. and that girl didnt even stop when she saw him ( after over 1 year !) and drove off on her scooty! f**king bitch. That's cold. I can see her reasons, though. She must have pent up a lots of emotions and thoughts about the guy, after the breakup . Maybe some regrets too. She's afraid interacting with him would make her lose the control over her emotions and things would get messy. But that's not an excuse to act so cold. The guy deserveda talk, if he's made so much effort to fly and do everything to meet her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pArth Posted March 10, 2014 Report Share Posted March 10, 2014 That's cold. I can see her reasons, though. She must have pent up a lots of emotions and thoughts about the guy, after the breakup . Maybe some regrets too. She's afraid interacting with him would make her lose the control over her emotions and things would get messy. But that's not an excuse to act so cold. The guy deserveda talk, if he's made so much effort to fly and do everything to meet her. I know man. She is f**king crazy. One day she says she wants to spend her whole life with him, and the next day she calls off the engagement and says bullshit things about their relation that it was almost non-existent and stuff. We really can't figure out the truth, whether its parental pressure, or she really does not love him. My friend still thinks that she loves him and that its all parental pressure. I mean come on, you are breaking up a 7 year relationship atleast have the balls to come out with the truth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m-JeRi Posted March 10, 2014 Report Share Posted March 10, 2014 this is a thread to vent it all out What the f**k man. Its not about venting. When i type, its reminding myself. It will be floodgates. I did that couple of years back with some old timers in this very thread.. dreading ever since.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted March 11, 2014 Report Share Posted March 11, 2014 Man, how many love lives have been ended because of these orthodox parents, I wonder. Sent using a mobile device. Forgive my typo. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted March 11, 2014 Report Share Posted March 11, 2014 Man, how many love lives have been ended because of these orthodox parents, I wonder. Sent using a mobile device. Forgive my typo. Mine would have, thank god my parents dropped orthodoxy for good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted March 11, 2014 Report Share Posted March 11, 2014 Mine would have, thank god my parents dropped orthodoxy for good. Lucky you. I feel really lucky that my parents would accept any girl I chose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hope Posted March 12, 2014 Report Share Posted March 12, 2014 What the f**k man. Its not about venting. When i type, its reminding myself. It will be floodgates. I did that couple of years back with some old timers in this very thread.. dreading ever since.. Toh post kyun kar raha hai phir Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted April 8, 2014 Report Share Posted April 8, 2014 (edited) Yea I went to California in 2012, then went to spain later that year and last year for some more, I'm leaving for Dubai tomorrow for two weeks for skydiving again. I don't usually jump in UK because it's cold as a witches tit here. The cost for training comes around £1200, then you become a licensed skydiver and you can jump anywhere in the world for as cheap as £13-14 per jump. I spent £2700 for my parachute and about £1000 more on helmet, suit, altimeter etc. It's not necessary as you can rent them or if you are a university student then you can use the equipment that the university clubs has (we have 3 at the university), but I wanted my own so I bought them. Anyway here's the story. If you remember, I was suppose to see her for a Christmas dinner with friends. Two days before the dinner I sent her a text asking how she was feeling as she was sick, I didn't get any reply for that. The next day I sent her a text detailing the dinner, on the day of the dinner I was talking to this friend of mine (ironically a girl who I previously used to like) and told her how weird Tamara (that's the name of the girl, if I never mentioned it...who this whole situation is about) was behaving, then I pull out my phone to check time and notice that she gave me a call just about a minute ago that I missed. I tried to contact her back twice but she didn't pick up, she didn't show up for the dinner that night either. The next day I ask her if everything's ok and asked if I said something to put her off because I was feeling so confused, I don't get a reply for that either. Christmas holidays start and I leave for the Alps, when I come back it's revision week and I just got busy with exams but I hoped every day that I would bump into her in the library but I didn't. After exams I sent her a nonchalant text asking how she is doing and if she made a skydive in Australia (something she asked me to remind her of when we met last time), and if she has been following up on the events in Ukraine and hasn't stressed herself out because of it (since she is ethnically Ukrainian). Of course, I never received any reply , this was in February. Later that week, there was a debate on nuclear non proliferation that I missed, later I find out that she attended the event and I was annoyed that I didn't know about the event until it was already over, since debating the debate surrounding nuclear non proliferation is something I love talking about. This got me in a bit of an off mood and I still think about her every day, I can't help but keep thinking if I'd have done at least one thing differently (like ask her out on the night itself, or add her on facebook when she brought it up, or ask her for a movie instead because she said she wanted to go to a movie with me) it could have had a different result. Because between the time when I saw her last and the night of dinner, something obviously did happen and it irks me to no end to think what it possibly could have been. I mean it wasn't me who contact her to meet, it was her who reached out to me, so if ignoring me was what she always wanted to do then she would never have reached out to me like that. I still hope for a closure at least some day, it feels like she's so close yet so far, I mean I have her number, her whatsapp, we are in the same university and we visit the same library. Hell we even have the same extended friend circle, yet I never seem to bump into her even though I end up meeting everyone else in the university on a regular basis, even the ones I don't want to meet. Also this is a classic case of someone appearing more attractive the more you realise how hard it is for you to reach out to them, but with that said she is extremely attractive to begin with. Edited April 8, 2014 by praveer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playstation Posted April 8, 2014 Report Share Posted April 8, 2014 Yea I went to California in 2012, then went to spain later that year and last year for some more, I'm leaving for Dubai tomorrow for two weeks for skydiving again. I don't usually jump in UK because it's cold as a witches tit here. The cost for training comes around £1200, then you become a licensed skydiver and you can jump anywhere in the world for as cheap as £13-14 per jump. I spent £2700 for my parachute and about £1000 more on helmet, suit, altimeter etc. It's not necessary as you can rent them or if you are a university student then you can use the equipment that the university clubs has (we have 3 at the university), but I wanted my own so I bought them. Can you tell me which institution you got trained from?? 1200 GBP is decent...infact quite cheap. Must be pretty awesome to own your own gears .....Dubai is fantastic place for sky diving these days. I have seen some videos. Great Enjoy!. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
praveer Posted April 8, 2014 Report Share Posted April 8, 2014 Can you tell me which institution you got trained from?? 1200 GBP is decent...infact quite cheap. Must be pretty awesome to own your own gears .....Dubai is fantastic place for sky diving these days. I have seen some videos. Great Enjoy!. It wasn't an institution, once you make your first jump at the centre you do your ground training at you can continue with your course anywhere else in the world. What you get is a set of regulation that every skydiving centre follows. Most around the world follow USPA (US Parachuting association), but we have our own regulations with the BPA. Different rules for graduating but the technique is the same and it's called AFF (Accelerated Fre Fall), unless you are talking about a very British specific training method tailor made for the weather conditions here and it's called RAPS which stands for Ram Air Progression System (I started off with that but I changed to AFF in California). My instructor was British and hence I underwent the British regulations. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playstation Posted April 9, 2014 Report Share Posted April 9, 2014 ^^i have been reading about it. I do came across BPA. Even in India whatever i have read and know many follow BPA regulations. I will get back to you for any more info i need regarding this. Thanks for all the info. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CM Sunny Posted April 11, 2014 Report Share Posted April 11, 2014 Yea I went to California in 2012, then went to spain later that year and last year for some more, I'm leaving for Dubai tomorrow for two weeks for skydiving again. I don't usually jump in UK because it's cold as a witches tit here. The cost for training comes around £1200, then you become a licensed skydiver and you can jump anywhere in the world for as cheap as £13-14 per jump. I spent £2700 for my parachute and about £1000 more on helmet, suit, altimeter etc. It's not necessary as you can rent them or if you are a university student then you can use the equipment that the university clubs has (we have 3 at the university), but I wanted my own so I bought them. Anyway here's the story. If you remember, I was suppose to see her for a Christmas dinner with friends. Two days before the dinner I sent her a text asking how she was feeling as she was sick, I didn't get any reply for that. The next day I sent her a text detailing the dinner, on the day of the dinner I was talking to this friend of mine (ironically a girl who I previously used to like) and told her how weird Tamara (that's the name of the girl, if I never mentioned it...who this whole situation is about) was behaving, then I pull out my phone to check time and notice that she gave me a call just about a minute ago that I missed. I tried to contact her back twice but she didn't pick up, she didn't show up for the dinner that night either. The next day I ask her if everything's ok and asked if I said something to put her off because I was feeling so confused, I don't get a reply for that either. Christmas holidays start and I leave for the Alps, when I come back it's revision week and I just got busy with exams but I hoped every day that I would bump into her in the library but I didn't. After exams I sent her a nonchalant text asking how she is doing and if she made a skydive in Australia (something she asked me to remind her of when we met last time), and if she has been following up on the events in Ukraine and hasn't stressed herself out because of it (since she is ethnically Ukrainian). Of course, I never received any reply , this was in February. Later that week, there was a debate on nuclear non proliferation that I missed, later I find out that she attended the event and I was annoyed that I didn't know about the event until it was already over, since debating the debate surrounding nuclear non proliferation is something I love talking about. This got me in a bit of an off mood and I still think about her every day, I can't help but keep thinking if I'd have done at least one thing differently (like ask her out on the night itself, or add her on facebook when she brought it up, or ask her for a movie instead because she said she wanted to go to a movie with me) it could have had a different result. Because between the time when I saw her last and the night of dinner, something obviously did happen and it irks me to no end to think what it possibly could have been. I mean it wasn't me who contact her to meet, it was her who reached out to me, so if ignoring me was what she always wanted to do then she would never have reached out to me like that. I still hope for a closure at least some day, it feels like she's so close yet so far, I mean I have her number, her whatsapp, we are in the same university and we visit the same library. Hell we even have the same extended friend circle, yet I never seem to bump into her even though I end up meeting everyone else in the university on a regular basis, even the ones I don't want to meet. Also this is a classic case of someone appearing more attractive the more you realise how hard it is for you to reach out to them, but with that said she is extremely attractive to begin with. ^This is you giving too many f**ks, you sound like you have a fun life going on, why worry so much for a girl? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted April 13, 2014 Report Share Posted April 13, 2014 ^This is you giving too many f**ks, you sound like you have a fun life going on, why worry so much for a girl? Coz.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aR7NVcnqZt8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Right Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 there was a debate on nuclear non proliferation that I missed, later I find out that she attended the event and I was annoyed that I didn't know about the event until it was already over, since debating the debate surrounding nuclear non proliferation is something I love talking about. Man how did you even like such topics.Unless you are in a Jholi-jhanda study course, there is no self-respecting human being can talk these IRL. ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sach4life Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 Man how did you even like such topics. Unless you are in a Jholi-jhanda study course, there is no self-respecting human being can talk these IRL. ? Wtf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 Man how did you even like such topics. Unless you are in a Jholi-jhanda study course, there is no self-respecting human being can talk these IRL. ? This. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ph3N0M Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 What is jholi-jhanda? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted April 19, 2014 Report Share Posted April 19, 2014 You Dont know what jholi-jhanda means? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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