egg man Posted August 27, 2014 Report Share Posted August 27, 2014 Yeah man. I hope our culture realizes it soon. Relatives, who don't have their sh!t under control would come and tell you how to live your life. Like, wtf? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goneforever Posted August 27, 2014 Report Share Posted August 27, 2014 @Draca I was referring to you not having to hold her back because she knows (and respects you now) you're working on getting your parents to accepting her. Also whatever BB said is correct but pardon his french Out of likes BB but next time I'm in Pune or wherever you are I owe you a beer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Boss Posted August 27, 2014 Report Share Posted August 27, 2014 Out of likes BB but next time I'm in Pune or wherever you are I owe you a beer. Thanks for the offer bro but I dont drink Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goneforever Posted August 27, 2014 Report Share Posted August 27, 2014 Toh ek kadakh chai on me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nr.Draca47 Posted August 27, 2014 Report Share Posted August 27, 2014 See my funda was clear, me and wife are going to live our life and not my parents. If my or her parents are doubting the marriage, that means they are doubting our choices. If they are doubting our choices, that means they doubt us, even if we are grown ups. If they think we cannot make correct decisions in our life, then they have failed at parenting, as simple as that. They can guide us, they can tell us pro and cons about our decisions BUT they cannot force their decisions, not at all in case of life changing events like marriage. The sooner Indian parents get that I am the Big Boss, the better it is for everyone. Gone are the days when your social respect meant life and death. That period is long gone. I dont give a f**k if my neighbor thinks I am an a**hole, he can go and finger himself. As simple as that. Glad that both my wife's parents and my parents understood the point that we both are marrying each other and neighbours, relatives, gaav ke log (yes, even they came into picture) have no right to have a say in that. As long as we are happy, who the f**k cares about the world? We get one life and we should live for ourselves, and not for kaka, mama, uska chacha, pados wala chotu etc. f**k them. Dude, even pados wala chotu interfered in your marriage talks....wtf Thanks for the offer bro but I dont drink O O, then we can go Red Bull Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CM Sunny Posted August 28, 2014 Report Share Posted August 28, 2014 Dude, even pados wala chotu interfered in your marriage talks....wtf You take it too literally It's a good thing I'll be marrying in my 40s or not at all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KyoyaHibari Posted August 28, 2014 Report Share Posted August 28, 2014 It's a good thing I'll be marrying in my 40s or not at all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playstationdude Posted August 28, 2014 Report Share Posted August 28, 2014 You take it too literally It's a good thing I'll be marrying in my 40s or not at all Kyu be? Sab ladkiyon ne reject kar diya kya tujhe? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KyoyaHibari Posted August 28, 2014 Report Share Posted August 28, 2014 No. Overqualified Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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CM Sunny Posted August 28, 2014 Report Share Posted August 28, 2014 Kyu be? Sab ladkiyon ne reject kar diya kya tujhe? Opposite karega tera bhai /chews paan No. Overqualified /je baat 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playstationdude Posted August 29, 2014 Report Share Posted August 29, 2014 Opposite karega tera bhai /chews paan /je baat Kaunsa vashikaran mantra haath laga hai tere? Kara yahan bhi share karde bhaiyon ke kalyan ke liye Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven Angel Posted December 12, 2014 Report Share Posted December 12, 2014 Okay! Have you guys ever run out of things to talk? This girl, we are together for almost 2 years (April), but these days, everything feels shallow...like..falling apart. We hangout, do stuff, but there is no talking. All our conversations are just dull/end soon or just formal, you know. At end of the day, she blames me for not talking. Seriously, I have shared literally everything. I don't want to break up; neither does she. I want to go back, where we used to talk a LOT. Relationship was more fun that time. Or is this normal? Do couples run out of things to talk at some point? If so, what do you do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ACIDICBRAT Posted December 12, 2014 Report Share Posted December 12, 2014 Okay! Have you guys ever run out of things to talk? This girl, we are together for almost 2 years (April), but these days, everything feels shallow...like..falling apart. We hangout, do stuff, but there is no talking. All our conversations are just dull/end soon or just formal, you know. At end of the day, she blames me for not talking. Seriously, I have shared literally everything. I don't want to break up; neither does she. I want to go back, where we used to talk a LOT. Relationship was more fun that time. Or is this normal? Do couples run out of things to talk at some point? If so, what do you do? As faar as i think its normal, has happend with me aswell, and obviously i too got blamed for not talking lol, Just try and make conversations from things you did everyday, like went here did that did this etc... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
egg man Posted December 12, 2014 Report Share Posted December 12, 2014 Or is this normal? Do couples run out of things to talk at some point? If so, what do you do? It's normal. You two need to 1) Take a mini-break or time off. Like for a month or so. 2) Take a vacation together 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nr.Draca47 Posted December 12, 2014 Report Share Posted December 12, 2014 Okay! Have you guys ever run out of things to talk? As faar as i think its normal, has happend with me aswell, and obviously i too got blamed for not talking lol, Just try and make conversations from things you did everyday, like went here did that did this etc... It happens between friends too. Its just our daily chores become so dull and hackneyed that theres nothing new to talk about. So, if theres any solace then you can say Silence is Golden Instead of forcing yourself desperately to talk, pick out small little things that make a difference. Like taking a load of her work (i m not talking about watching TV together), like how happy you would be if your friend gamed with you (co-op) or as in MMO...so jus like that work with her, and turn your feeling/chatting into action; its not like foreplay is jus for ***. Foreplay with easing-off-her-work can turn to 'straight from the heart thank yous' kinda thingy. And by foreplay I mean teasing her,sorting out her messed desk or anythng that needs sorting, food n beverage shopping (I mean whatever she spends time in buying and you havnt accompanied her in that stuff) or window shopping of whatever she likes.....turn day to day activities into fun. If she is tired of her work and cant get enough rest then instead of sitting alone with her in a room take her to the rooftop or quiet n safe park or anywhere nearby where its safe,peaceful, soothing, nice open view, fresh air. If you live in an open area then do the opposite. Breaking the monotony is important, and it doesn't have to be a huge thing. BUT it wont work if your gal is adventurous. Then God help you. Vacation is the only solution I can guess atm. As far as what to talk about then sharing insteresting news will keep things afresh.Like you are always upto date with gaming news, do the same for her. Give a few minutes of your time to find out news related to her area of interest. If you guys dont do anything apart sitting on your regular chair's 24*7, then Silence is Golden. Or maybe you both are just busy in your lives trying to achieve a temporary goal then its fine. Money doesnt bring happiness but it doesnt mean it aint important. Like working hard for the upcoming promotion or exams.... Or it may mean(as per your girl) that you aint as charming and attractive as before...(as you know girls always imply indirectly, she's a good friend so what if she said indirectly as to not break your heart) Watch a few romantic movies like 17again, Sex n city,Walk to remember,guess who, etc etc...maybe you are missing something and watching them again might give you a clue.. Above all, Be Cool and look Smart *cheers* 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heaven Angel Posted December 13, 2014 Report Share Posted December 13, 2014 As faar as i think its normal, has happend with me aswell, and obviously i too got blamed for not talking lol, Just try and make conversations from things you did everyday, like went here did that did this etc... Women, can't live with them, can't live without them. And yea, I'm just talking about daily stuff these days. It's normal. You two need to 1) Take a mini-break or time off. Like for a month or so. 2) Take a vacation together A month? I don't think either of use can go that long without seeing each other. Vacation, yep, planning already for Christmas. It happens between friends too. Its just our daily chores become so dull and hackneyed that theres nothing new to talk about. So, if theres any solace then you can say Silence is Golden Instead of forcing yourself desperately to talk, pick out small little things that make a difference. Like taking a load of her work (i m not talking about watching TV together), like how happy you would be if your friend gamed with you (co-op) or as in MMO...so jus like that work with her, and turn your feeling/chatting into action; its not like foreplay is jus for ***. Foreplay with easing-off-her-work can turn to 'straight from the heart thank yous' kinda thingy. And by foreplay I mean teasing her,sorting out her messed desk or anythng that needs sorting, food n beverage shopping (I mean whatever she spends time in buying and you havnt accompanied her in that stuff) or window shopping of whatever she likes.....turn day to day activities into fun. If she is tired of her work and cant get enough rest then instead of sitting alone with her in a room take her to the rooftop or quiet n safe park or anywhere nearby where its safe,peaceful, soothing, nice open view, fresh air. If you live in an open area then do the opposite. She doesn't work, but I get your point. I never thought of last line till now. I'll give a shot. Breaking the monotony is important, and it doesn't have to be a huge thing. BUT it wont work if your gal is adventurous. Then God help you. Vacation is the only solution I can guess atm. As far as what to talk about then sharing insteresting news will keep things afresh.Like you are always upto date with gaming news, do the same for her. Give a few minutes of your time to find out news related to her area of interest. Too bad she doesn't play games much (other than board and Just Dance type) or watch TV. We were talking about TV earlier today, it was pretty one-sided. I was just talking and talking. She was like hmm, that's great, etc. If you guys dont do anything apart sitting on your regular chair's 24*7, then Silence is Golden. If either of us are silent whole day, we end up fighting. Or maybe you both are just busy in your lives trying to achieve a temporary goal then its fine. Money doesn't bring happiness but it doesn't mean it ain't important. Like working hard for the upcoming promotion or exams.... Or it may mean(as per your girl) that you ain't as charming and attractive as before...(as you know girls always imply indirectly, she's a good friend so what if she said indirectly as to not break your heart) No. We are pretty straight with our relationship. No temporary goals or any sort of thing. I'm not sure about second line, but god, I hope it's not something like that. Watch a few romantic movies like 17again, Sex n city,Walk to remember,guess who, etc etc...maybe you are missing something and watching them again might give you a clue.. Above all, Be Cool and look Smart *cheers* That's the plan for weekend. Thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phreak Posted December 13, 2014 Report Share Posted December 13, 2014 take her to the rooftop or quiet n safe park or anywhere nearby where its safe,peaceful, soothing, nice open view, fresh air. If you live in an open area then do the opposite. Or is this normal? Do couples run out of things to talk at some point? If so, what do you do? joe others be talking nonsense, all you need is this beautiful guide to spice up things Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black_Hawk Posted December 13, 2014 Report Share Posted December 13, 2014 (edited) Winter always makes me remember her... specially those warm sweet afternoons on weekends where we used to perch out on the open sunny balcony over a late lunch or a steaming cup of coffee. The endless long conversations, the laughs and smiles... they were such good times. Times that I often recollect. Thought we have parted ways now and she's is in a different part of the world I just hope the sun shines a little bit brighter on her shoulders each day, everyday. Edited December 13, 2014 by Black_Hawk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosh Posted December 13, 2014 Report Share Posted December 13, 2014 Which movie is that from? Jk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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