megzworld Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 Now Pushy must be heartbroken... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reaper Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 i wouldn't want to hear raper's heartbreak story and i would want to hear yours again .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b!T Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 nw i can see a lot of coyotes in this thread, looking to feast upon the despair that is our tragic end(mentally).... well as long as everybody is spilling it out, I'll just follow suit first of all @legend, bro smoking 4-5 cigs a week is not good, I don't need anybody's advice to understand it than my own. I started smoking at 13 years of age and I'm 24 now. It just suck the life outta you. Started with just 2 or 3 cigs a week and when I was in college it was a pack a day. It caused some serious heath sh*t which I am not comfortable sharing, But it taught me something "When you keep on telling that you got it under control, u just got outta control". Stay away from it bro. Nw coming to heartbreak stuff; I had a girl firend, I kept my luv for her inside me for more than 3 years,then proposed and she accepted but sadly that was the only happy part of it. She valued only one thing above me and that was her parents. I understood it even though she never said it, Duh!!! otherwise wat kinda boyfriend am I I even changed my career path to give her a very comfortable life. When it came to marriage things went to hell and I wud never want her to leave her parents because of me. So I freaked out of it. Still it nags me and is something I need to live with. Note :- I am not crying about it and still hit on a lotta girls Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abhi90 Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 awww dude @reaper: when did i spill the beans the last time ? and i can theoretically never have a heartbreak Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outsider Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 @CP: Well, from your account, you (and your ex) have decided that, because of surrounding circumstances, your relationship isn't going to work. I'm sure you came to that decision after a lot of thought. It's not surprising that you're working through accepting that decision, for it's a slow process after all. It sounds like you're getting out there and living your life (at least to some extent), and that's what you need to do. In the event that I've read the situation wrong, then, that is what you need to do: ie., realise that you've made a decision based on all surrounding circumstances, accept that you will have moments where you wonder why the hell you made the decision you did, and go out there and live your life. You may, at some future point, decide that wasn't the right decision, and if all other factors are amenable, you may work things out with your ex. You may not. Focusing on that one decision is certainly going to ensure that you feel that you've made the biggest mistake of your life, and turn it into a self-fulfilling prophecy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pushy Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 (edited) Edited February 1, 2011 by Pushy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outsider Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 ^^ Pushy, in your case, you just need to keep Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b!T Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 go out there and live your life. exact same thoughts I had but apparently its not that easy nw, is it?? You may, at some future point, decide that wasn't the right decision, and if all other factors are amenable, you may work things out with your ex. I forgot to mention that this happened some time ago. I can't work out things because she is already married. Above statement shows I am regretting my decision Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 nw i can see a lot of coyotes in this thread, looking to feast upon the despair that is our tragic end(mentally).... well as long as everybody is spilling it out, I'll just follow suit first of all @legend, bro smoking 4-5 cigs a week is not good, I don't need anybody's advice to understand it than my own. I started smoking at 13 years of age and I'm 24 now. It just suck the life outta you. Started with just 2 or 3 cigs a week and when I was in college it was a pack a day. It caused some serious heath sh*t which I am not comfortable sharing, But it taught me something "When you keep on telling that you got it under control, u just got outta control". Stay away from it bro. Nw coming to heartbreak stuff; I had a girl firend, I kept my luv for her inside me for more than 3 years,then proposed and she accepted but sadly that was the only happy part of it. She valued only one thing above me and that was her parents. I understood it even though she never said it, Duh!!! otherwise wat kinda boyfriend am I I even changed my career path to give her a very comfortable life. When it came to marriage things went to hell and I wud never want her to leave her parents because of me. So I freaked out of it. Still it nags me and is something I need to live with. Note :- I am not crying about it and still hit on a lotta girls First of all, You have won my heart when you advised the kid against the evil of smoking.. I nag all my friends who smoke and am a firm believer that Smoking kills (Have lost a loved one so I know!) About your heartbreak, Though you have written it in a way that sounds detached, but I do know that when you were going through it, it must have been tough. Mard ko bhi dard hota hai.. It seems you were very serious about the girl, may be you still love her and would have wanted it to work. But why were her parents so against you? Was it because of cast, coz if taht the reason you could have not done much, or was it because of your career/social/economical background, in which case you could have made the parents understand ofcourse with the help of your girlfriend. You are all of 24. But I can assure you one thing, a girl not necessarily have to leave her parents to be with the guy she loves. We are all adults and it is our responsibility to show our parents that we are capable of taking a decision and standing by it , even in the case it backfires. So, though you would not have wanted your girl to leave her parents, you could have definitely told her that she can trust you and decide, coz parents initial reaction may not be very encouraging but over the time, if you are consistent, parents also give in. Nevertheless, I am sure whatever happened has made you a stronger person. You have lived and felt love closely and since you are already hitting on well with other girls, you may find the right match for you soon.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outsider Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 If it were easy, it wouldn't be life. Do things you like doing, and distract yourself. If you're otherwise happy, then either (a) you won't be concerned that you're single (or not with that girl); or ( if you're looking to start a relationship, you'll (i) meet other people; and (ii) be in a frame of mind to actually make a fist of things. Focusing on the fact that it didn't work out with her gets you nowhere but on the road to misery. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noctis Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 Looks like the two of you are really enjoying this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b!T Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 I nag all my friends who smoke and am a firm believer that Smoking kills (Have lost a loved one so I know!) I'm sorry for ur loss. I advice all my friends not to do it. The hard part is to quit, which is harder than most people think Was it because of cast, coz if taht the reason you could have not done much, or was it because of your career/social/economical background, in which case you could have made the parents understand ofcourse with the help of your girlfriend. Yup it was the religion, I am Christian and she is a Muslim. My parents agreed but not hers. Convincing such orthodox people is impossible i guess. Put in a lotta effort and time to it but no use. Though you have written it in a way that sounds detached, Putting it the way I wrote itself was very weird for me (In my own way) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pushy Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 Looks like the two of you are really enjoying this. me thoughts exact Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b!T Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 Looks like the two of you are really enjoying this. I am not enjoyin for sure Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aRch-0n Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 (edited) Looks like the two of you are really enjoying this. Yeah they are at it, completely stuck on to this thread Edited February 1, 2011 by VyCe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cash Posted February 1, 2011 Report Share Posted February 1, 2011 This thread was way too fun when there were no you know.. @CP Yea thanks for the input,will try and stop. And about your heartbreak, There is certain thing you need to know not only you but all infact.As a muslim i am telling most the muslim like 75% of them are Orthodox and is very much into their religion and marrying someone of other religion is wrong in our rules but marrying a christian is accepted but dont know why your ex's parents dint allow maybe or it must be because these kind of things are pretty much new in most areas in india.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reaper Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 IVG has its own Agony Aunt now i know wer to post when my wife dumps my kid on my lap while im playing Mass Effect 2 .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outsider Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 @Reaper, that one's easy. Hand the controls over to your kid, and anoint him/her into the world of gaming. It's like those violin virtuosos who are handed a violin the day they were born (or so it'd seem). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playstation Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 IVG has its own Agony Aunt now i know wer to post when my wife dumps my kid on my lap while im playing Mass Effect 2 .. Does she knows Mass effect 3 has been announced?? Mass effect 2 mein she is dumping the kid....Mass effect 3 mein she will dump you.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reaper Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 @Reaper, that one's easy. Hand the controls over to your kid, and anoint him/her into the world of gaming. It's like those violin virtuosos who are handed a violin the day they were born (or so it'd seem). ur missing the point!!! anointing him into gaming is gonna cut my precious game time .. we are gonna compete for the same space in future Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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