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Which is why video games and work > people.

 

 

Nah, the trick is to bury yourself with things to do. Also, move on.

both are short statements..but say a world of things...so true...totally agree with it....

never use to believe before, but its like until you have not been hit by something,you live in your own fool's paradise

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Read this somewhere,

 

"As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up becuase if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate.

You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything.

Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will?

So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.."

 

Very True.

 

The person you love the most is the person who gets the power to hurt you. You are lucky, if you find love from the person who would love you back no matter what, accept you with your quirks, hurt you but make up for it, and pretty much complement you even while being his own self.

 

Good Luck..

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Nah, the trick is to bury yourself with things to do. Also, move on.

 

 

The first time was a lesson ...

 

Second time around, you sought closure, but in vain ...

 

And now you need to bury yourself in work to forget? That's not moving on bro ...

 

Megz and the whole of IVG can help you ... so tell us what happened :)

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I'll preface what I have to say with the fact that I understand that people react differently and have different approaches and responses. All that aside, my view on things is that in matters of the heart, it really is like riding a bike - you fall off, you dust yourself off and get back on there. My reason is quite simple. I can't ever imagine a state of mind where the people in my life are not paramount.

 

Now, I know that the people in your life involve more than a significant (or not so significant) other. I also understand that relationships do not necessarily have to be top of mind. They certainly aren't for me. But, keeping all of that in mind, shutting yourself off from relationships entirely also seems to me counter-intuitive and counter-productive. Yes, some d*ckhead(s) out there hurt you. Shutting yourself off proceeds (on some level) on the basis that everyone you meet is cut from the same cloth. I strongly believe that you get a lot more out of people if you give them the benefit of the doubt (even repeatedly).

 

Before you say this is idealistic claptrap, and that I've clearly not been in a position to have had my heart in a vice, I'll just say that I've unfortunately been in that position.

 

On top of it being a case of cutting your nose off to spite your face if you view all relationships with distrust (or simply shut yourself off), it's also just easier to go through life assuming people aren't out to break your heart. You get more out of it. Yes, you expose yourself to heartbreak. Yes, that heartbreak is miserable. Yet, it's not the norm. If you open yourself up, you're going to have more meaningful relationships (I use that in a general sense rather than the romantic sense) which compensates for the lowest of the lows. I generalise in this way only because in my view, that guardedness can't help but creep over into your general approach to people, not just romantic relationships.

 

My $0.002.

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PS: I'm heartbroken that it's taken Graw this long to acknowledge that I am his friend on IVG. Yet, my sig still applies. See milo!

 

 

/adds to the list of women whose hearts I've broken :P

 

 

 

:lol: But seriously, I thought you were already on my friends list, we've been friends on fb for quite some time now :)

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