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It's time I post in this thread as a heartbroken guy. So I did go and tell her about me feelings, what happened ?

 

Refusal which is fine (even though it hurts so much), she tells me that she likes me but she cant be with me as she already has a boyfriend of 4-5 years. I know I will eventually get over this but I never wanted to go through this phase all over again, it just kills me from the inside and it's even worse when it happens for the 3rd time in a row. I think it'll be like this forever (ie. My whole college life) and I won't be trying anymore cause I don't want to go through this for a fourth time.

 

The problem is, I take my time to get attached to a girl and when I do I'm in a position where it's very hard for me to cope up with a refusal. If she was just any other girl who I knew for a week or two or even a month I wouldn't even have bothered thinking about it....but this, is just too painful. I kinda feel disappointed by myself for being the nice and quite natured guy, why am I the one to go through this? For once I want to be the happy guy as well.....why don't the nice and quite guys ever get the women?

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It's time I post in this thread as a heartbroken guy. So I did go and tell her about me feelings, what happened ?

 

Refusal which is fine (even though it hurts so much), she tells me that she likes me but she cant be with me as she already has a boyfriend of 4-5 years. I know I will eventually get over this but I never wanted to go through this phase all over again, it just kills me from the inside and it's even worse when it happens for the 3rd time in a row. I think it'll be like this forever (ie. My whole college life) and I won't be trying anymore cause I don't want to go through this for a fourth time.

 

The problem is, I take my time to get attached to a girl and when I do I'm in a position where it's very hard for me to cope up with a refusal. If she was just any other girl who I knew for a week or two or even a month I wouldn't even have bothered thinking about it....but this, is just too painful. I kinda feel disappointed by myself for being the nice and quite natured guy, why am I the one to go through this? For once I want to be the happy guy as well.....why don't the nice and quite guys ever get the women?

 

Did it ever occur to you that she was simply having fun with you the whole time? Women are very clear when they're having fun and when they decide to get serious. Why did you risk getting attached to someone who's already mentioned she had a boyfriend for years together? And i bet she never told you that she had any intention to leave her boyfriend in the near future. The problem is with you. You made the mistake of assuming that you could settle with a girl who's already in a relationship. I bet her boyfriend is much better-off than you are.

 

Piece of advice - Compared to the rest of the world, indian women are extremely hypocritical and will never openly admit to being gold-digging blood hounds. They wholeheartedly believe that they are the perfect picture of innocence, loyalty and righteousness.

 

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Fess up, wise up and move on.

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It's time I post in this thread as a heartbroken guy. So I did go and tell her about me feelings, what happened ?

 

Refusal which is fine (even though it hurts so much), she tells me that she likes me but she cant be with me as she already has a boyfriend of 4-5 years. I know I will eventually get over this but I never wanted to go through this phase all over again, it just kills me from the inside and it's even worse when it happens for the 3rd time in a row. I think it'll be like this forever (ie. My whole college life) and I won't be trying anymore cause I don't want to go through this for a fourth time.

 

The problem is, I take my time to get attached to a girl and when I do I'm in a position where it's very hard for me to cope up with a refusal. If she was just any other girl who I knew for a week or two or even a month I wouldn't even have bothered thinking about it....but this, is just too painful. I kinda feel disappointed by myself for being the nice and quite natured guy, why am I the one to go through this? For once I want to be the happy guy as well.....why don't the nice and quite guys ever get the women?

 

u r not alone :console:

 

Did it ever occur to you that she was simply having fun with you the whole time? Women are very clear when they're having fun and when they decide to get serious. Why did you risk getting attached to someone who's already mentioned she had a boyfriend for years together? And i bet she never told you that she had any intention to leave her boyfriend in the near future. The problem is with you. You made the mistake of assuming that you could settle with a girl who's already in a relationship. I bet her boyfriend is much better-off than you are.

 

Piece of advice - Compared to the rest of the world, indian women are extremely hypocritical and will never openly admit to being gold-digging blood hounds. They wholeheartedly believe that they are the perfect picture of innocence, loyalty and righteousness.

 

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Fess up, wise up and move on.

 

b!tch please, keep that sh*t a*s advice to urself, did u even read his post?

he never knew she had a BF, she told him when he told her his feelings, he ain't no god n****

next time, read the f**king post before making advice's, now thats a f**king advice to u

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It's time I post in this thread as a heartbroken guy. So I did go and tell her about me feelings, what happened ?

 

Refusal which is fine (even though it hurts so much), she tells me that she likes me but she cant be with me as she already has a boyfriend of 4-5 years. I know I will eventually get over this but I never wanted to go through this phase all over again, it just kills me from the inside and it's even worse when it happens for the 3rd time in a row. I think it'll be like this forever (ie. My whole college life) and I won't be trying anymore cause I don't want to go through this for a fourth time.

 

The problem is, I take my time to get attached to a girl and when I do I'm in a position where it's very hard for me to cope up with a refusal. If she was just any other girl who I knew for a week or two or even a month I wouldn't even have bothered thinking about it....but this, is just too painful. I kinda feel disappointed by myself for being the nice and quite natured guy, why am I the one to go through this? For once I want to be the happy guy as well.....why don't the nice and quite guys ever get the women?

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b!tch please, keep that sh*t a*s advice to urself, did u even read his post?

he never knew she had a BF, she told him when he told her his feelings, he ain't no god n****

next time, read the f**king post before making advice's, now thats a f**king advice to u

 

Hey Pushy long time man! :)

 

What's with all the hate dude? He hasn't clearly mentioned anything in his post regarding when this girl admitted to having a boyfriend for 4-5 years. And if what you're saying is right about her having never told Praveer that she had a boyfriend until he admitted to having feelings, then it makes her a liar, and all the more reason for Praveer to stay away from someone like her.

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It's time I post in this thread as a heartbroken guy. So I did go and tell her about me feelings, what happened ?

 

Refusal which is fine (even though it hurts so much), she tells me that she likes me but she cant be with me as she already has a boyfriend of 4-5 years. I know I will eventually get over this but I never wanted to go through this phase all over again, it just kills me from the inside and it's even worse when it happens for the 3rd time in a row. I think it'll be like this forever (ie. My whole college life) and I won't be trying anymore cause I don't want to go through this for a fourth time.

 

The problem is, I take my time to get attached to a girl and when I do I'm in a position where it's very hard for me to cope up with a refusal. If she was just any other girl who I knew for a week or two or even a month I wouldn't even have bothered thinking about it....but this, is just too painful. I kinda feel disappointed by myself for being the nice and quite natured guy, why am I the one to go through this? For once I want to be the happy guy as well.....why don't the nice and quite guys ever get the women?

Women..:doh:

Anyway bro, as u seem to take time to get attached to a girl, dont wait for that to happen before tryin to hook up with a girl then as drebin said. Speed up ur game, be reckless take risks. Waiting till u get quiet attached gonna leave u with the same feelin in case of refusal. So make it quick the sooner she refuses the better u'll feel as the attachement wont b there. And remember being a nice and matures dude doesnt always pay. U need to have that mix of nice and matured with pinches of badass and punk. U sound like someone goodhearted, therefore u may seek the best as soon as u get in a relation and fear the loss to a point where u just do anything to please the other end. Overcome that, say "f*ck you" when necessary and when u feel like it. :)

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