Bird Bird Bird Posted August 13, 2011 Report Share Posted August 13, 2011 (edited) Hmmm. Somehow the 2 girls have given better advice than the guys (mostly pixel ). The world is definitely ending in 2012. Edited August 13, 2011 by Kaamwali Bai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outsider Posted August 13, 2011 Report Share Posted August 13, 2011 There are *some* advantages to our advancinged years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ash_ Posted August 13, 2011 Report Share Posted August 13, 2011 Repped! Kya Tum Mantally The Sick Ho My Bwoy? Nahi unty maaaii mantally sick naahi hoo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pushy Posted August 13, 2011 Report Share Posted August 13, 2011 zergey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freelancer Posted August 13, 2011 Report Share Posted August 13, 2011 Jawaan ladka ladki kabhi dost nahi ban sakte Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freelancer Posted August 13, 2011 Report Share Posted August 13, 2011 I have had my heart broken a few times n i have broken some.. May b because m unstable whn it comes to beautiful girls !!!! One thing i can say for sure is tht u do million good things for girls n u do one small tini mini sa bad thing which they don like , u become their worst enemy, all good things thrown in the bin... I read somewhr in FB "with the way current economics situations are goin, Women may start loving for real.... " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 I have had my heart broken a few times n i have broken some.. May b because m unstable whn it comes to beautiful girls !!!! One thing i can say for sure is tht u do million good things for girls n u do one small tini mini sa bad thing which they don like , u become their worst enemy, all good things thrown in the bin... I read somewhr in FB "with the way current economics situations are goin, Women may start loving for real.... " Uff! You sound lost. There are all kinds that make the world. Women & men. All I can say is that may you get your kind soon. Saying all girls are bad, heartless, selfish and superficial is not going to lessen the hurt, neither will it transform you into a gay! chill dude.. All the best for the next one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 Hmmm. Somehow the 2 girls have given better advice than the guys (mostly pixel ). The world is definitely ending in 2012. And this is the kinda response from someone who'd say anything for a little attention! @ Praveer - Remember that its your decision finally. Its only natural that the only two women on IVG felt most comfortable spending time on this thread. But there aren't any rules in place that state that only the women need give advice and their advice be treated the soundest like what Kaamwali Bai has indirectly and probably unconsciously indicated. The point that i'm trying to make is that both women and men can leave meaningful opinions on this thread but more often than not these opinions will differ a lot. The guys may be bit harsh with their opinions while the women take the softer route. Answers that sound the rosiest aren't always right and the same goes for the blunt ones too. Sometimes you need to accept the harsh truth in order to come to terms with reality. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 And this is the kinda response from someone who'd say anything for a little attention! @ Praveer - Remember that its your decision finally. Its only natural that the only two women on IVG felt most comfortable spending time on this thread. But there aren't any rules in place that state that only the women need give advice and their advice be treated the soundest like what Kaamwali Bai has indirectly and probably unconsciously indicated. The point that i'm trying to make is that both women and men can leave meaningful opinions on this thread but more often than not these opinions will differ a lot. The guys may be bit harsh with their opinions while the women take the softer route. Answers that sound the rosiest aren't always right and the same goes for the blunt ones too. Sometimes you need to accept the harsh truth in order to come to terms with reality. Will u be my fraand???? No (accept the harsh truth!!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 Will u be my fraand???? No (accept the harsh truth!!) Did it ever strike you that i might've been joking considering the fact that i never sent you a fraand request in the first place?!? Looks like Agony Aunt has lost her sense of humour!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outsider Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 @pixel: I agree with your general proposition. In this particular instance, I don't think advice to try and break this girl's relationship up or speculating about whether she's making up a boyfriend is particularly helpful. Nor is it rosy to say it's unfortunate that this girl isn't into you, that's a pity, but dont mope about it and take the 'nice guy' rant. It's also not rosy to suggest that just because she has a boyfriend and is not interested in a relationship, it doesn't mean she doesn't genuinely care for him as a person and friend. It simply acknowledges that relationships aren't two-dimensional affairs which can be navigated by reading 'The Game'. It acknowledges that running your relationships by reference to gender stereotypes is not particularly helpful. It recognises that a relationship (of any sort, not just a capital R relationship) simply requires that you relate to the person in front of you as a fellow human being rather than a bag of preconceptions and issues you bring to the table. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 Did it ever strike you that i might've been joking considering the fact that i never sent you a fraand request in the first place?!? Looks like Agony Aunt has lost her sense of humour!!! Yup, u better be joking!! Atleast u won't be heart broken then.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 @pixel: I agree with your general proposition. Thanks In this particular instance, I don't think advice to try and break this girl's relationship up or speculating about whether she's making up a boyfriend is particularly helpful. Nor is it rosy to say it's unfortunate that this girl isn't into you, that's a pity, but dont mope about it and take the 'nice guy' rant. It's also not rosy to suggest that just because she has a boyfriend and is not interested in a relationship, it doesn't mean she doesn't genuinely care for him as a person and friend. I felt the same too although i wasn't clear about it in my earlier suggestions. When i asked Praveer to maintain distance and show less interest, i was indirectly suggesting that he work on his sense of self-worth/confidence; not with the intention of being disrespectful. The suggestion regarding the gift was for the benefit of both parties too. This gift would serve as proof of his affection and also relay the fact that the decision to committ was upto the girl. It simply acknowledges that relationships aren't two-dimensional affairs which can be navigated by reading 'The Game'. It acknowledges that running your relationships by reference to gender stereotypes is not particularly helpful. It recognises that a relationship (of any sort, not just a capital R relationship) simply requires that you relate to the person in front of you as a fellow human being rather than a bag of preconceptions and issues you bring to the table. My earlier post was in reference to that of Kaamwali Bai's and was in no way intentionally/unintentionally directed towards either yourself or Megz. The problem with a thread like this on a male-dominated, testosterone-infested forum like IVG is that the overall opinon can tend to be heavily biased in favour of the fairer sex. And the fact that there are only two active female members does not help. Objectivity can get easily lost on such a thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 Thanks I felt the same too although i wasn't clear about it in my earlier suggestions. When i asked Praveer to maintain distance and show less interest, i was indirectly suggesting that he work on his sense of self-worth/confidence; not with the intention of being disrespectful. The suggestion regarding the gift was for the benefit of both parties too. This gift would serve as proof of his affection and also relay the fact that the decision to committ was upto the girl. My earlier post was in reference to that of Kaamwali Bai's and was in no way intentionally/unintentionally directed towards either yourself or Megz. The problem with a thread like this on a male-dominated, testosterone-infested forum like IVG is that the overall opinon can tend to be heavily biased in favour of the fairer sex. And the fact that there are only two active female members does not help. Objectivity can get easily lost on such a thread. Somebody please take his advice.. or he will continue to justify.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bird Bird Bird Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 And this is the kinda response from someone who'd say anything for a little attention! Lulz ? Seeing the last 2 pages, guess who's vying for a little attention ? And btw, there're people in this world who might not agree with your stance ! Shockingly horrific right ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 Lulz ? Seeing the last 2 pages, guess who's vying for a little attention ? And btw, there're people in this world who might not agree with your stance ! Shockingly horrific right ? Likes Dabs said Different strokes for different folks Hmmm...KB you sound like a ladies man pass on some tips will ya? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bird Bird Bird Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 ^^ Nah man. I'm taking pointers from this thread. One rule I go by though: Never ever humiliate or bad mouth the fairer sex. That's very (for the lack of a better word) unmanly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 One rule I go by though: Never ever humiliate or bad mouth the fairer sex. That's very (for the lack of a better word) unmanly. Can't say much for myself since i've lost my patience! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bird Bird Bird Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 (edited) ^^ That's one thing I've loads of. (except when shopping :|) Edited August 14, 2011 by Kaamwali Bai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killzone123 Posted August 14, 2011 Report Share Posted August 14, 2011 ^^^ why dont you both use pm for this chat about patience and stuff etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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