Nemo Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 lol was watching pyar ka punchnama last night Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LagWarriorZergey Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 Not really the best thing to do rite now lol.. Watch pron.. fap to other gal u will soon be over it On a serious note, just take it easy and go with the flow.. she may end up liking u and things will turn to ur favor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Django_3101 Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 lol was watching pyar ka punchnama last night  don't cry like it is shown in the movie but yes you can beat the hell out of her boyfraand.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madmage Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 (edited) Girlfriends are not important.. Studies are more important.. Your future is more important. You are the future of our country and you want to cry over a girl. Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â /Trollface Edited September 5, 2011 by Madmage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playstation Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 Thank u mohit bhai too welcome bro. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outsider Posted September 5, 2011 Report Share Posted September 5, 2011 @Nemo: sounds like you've just met her. Try not to let your attraction climb into your head and inflate into a really big deal. She's cool - hang out, be friends. You had a crack, and that's all you can really do. Onwards and upwards(?). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted September 6, 2011 Report Share Posted September 6, 2011 Nemo.. Thats okay yaar.. U ve just met her and u gotta know she's hooked so atleast your had not invested too much of your emotions into her.. Â Great, be friends with her.. And get your Dil back in your pocket for the next girl that makes it go.. Dhak Dhak.. Â Have Fun !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 6, 2011 Report Share Posted September 6, 2011 (edited) so i asked (her out) amd turns out she has a bf already fml.. what to do ? its hard to stay in the just friends mentality but she is a cool gal to hang around with. truly heartbroken  Wow. That just reminded me of a Blast from the Past. Shouldn't have visited this thread .  I was great friends with this one girl and I genuinely liked her and had a hunch that she liked me too. This was 2 years back, when I was in 11th. We were real good friends and one day we made out and I really thought that this is finally a girl I like and someone i'm not afraid to commit to unlike others. Next day, when I was talking to her, she is like i'm sorry for what happened yesterday and I really like you but I have a boyfriend for the last 4 years ... so we should still just be friends. I was like and I said to myself : you are telling this to me now . She was always friendly with me but I just couldn't do it. We didn't speak much in the remaining of Class 11 and 12. Sometimes I feel it's tougher to just be with those people as they just remind you of certain incidents. So my advice would be to not avoid her but try seeing her less so that you can forget her faster.  That's why I like life in New Zealand. Girls here are really cool unlike the Indian girls who keep hiding stuff from friends Edited September 6, 2011 by Avishkar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 Avi !! Tu toh chupa rustam nikla. Well atlest u went till first base Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 Tbanks megz and outsider, time shall heal is d only strand I m holding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanjosh Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 (edited) @Nemo - Just a word of warning. If you find yourself to be depressed when you're around her, gtfo from that place. If you think you can stay friends with her without continuously thinking about how great you two would have been together, all well and dandy. If not, then distance yourself from her or you'll dig yourself into a hole Edited September 7, 2011 by Bagpipes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 (edited) Wow. That just reminded me of a Blast from the Past. Shouldn't have visited this thread .  I was great friends with this one girl and I genuinely liked her and had a hunch that she liked me too. This was 2 years back, when I was in 11th. We were real good friends and one day we made out and I really thought that this is finally a girl I like and someone i'm not afraid to commit to unlike others. Next day, when I was talking to her, she is like i'm sorry for what happened yesterday and I really like you but I have a boyfriend for the last 4 years ... so we should still just be friends. I was like and I said to myself : you are telling this to me now . She was always friendly with me but I just couldn't do it. We didn't speak much in the remaining of Class 11 and 12. Sometimes I feel it's tougher to just be with those people as they just remind you of certain incidents. So my advice would be to not avoid her but try seeing her less so that you can forget her faster.  That's why I like life in New Zealand. Girls here are really cool unlike the Indian girls who keep hiding stuff from friends   Agreed. But there are times when i'm a bit too bit harsh. Can we really blame them? Especially in a country shackled by decades of gender inequality.  They do it to protect their "integrity". And this is where it gets strange. Really strange. Edited September 7, 2011 by pixeljunkie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killzone123 Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 Â They do it to protect their "integrity". And this is where it gets strange. Really strange. i think you wrote this word..as a joke...right Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 (edited) i think you wrote this word..as a joke...right   That's their excuse in Chennai city! Why else do you think i found it strange!  Culturally speaking, Chennai is in a world of its own ... Edited September 7, 2011 by pixeljunkie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
godspeed4476 Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 so i asked (her out) amd turns out she has a bf already fml.. what to do ? its hard to stay in the just friends mentality but she is a cool gal to hang around with. truly heartbroken Dude just because she has a bf does not mean you should give up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 so i asked (her out) amd turns out she has a bf already fml.. what to do ? its hard to stay in the just friends mentality but she is a cool gal to hang around with. truly heartbroken   So what if she has a boyfriend? Continue to be friendly with her but don't give her as much attention as you used too. If there's another girl, whom she's best friends with, then flirt with that girl. Move on to the next best thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outsider Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 You guys have *got* to be kidding. She's in a relationship. Respect that. Leave well enough alone. Angling for an opportunity in those circumstances is deeply disrespectful and will *not* earn you any brownie points. Honestly! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
godspeed4476 Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 You guys have *got* to be kidding. She's in a relationship. Respect that. Leave well enough alone. Angling for an opportunity in those circumstances is deeply disrespectful and will *not* earn you any brownie points. Honestly! And most of the time relationships break because some 1 finds another/guy or gal who is better(depending on perspective)? I am not advocatig him trying to create a wedge in a relationship, but If every 1 thinks that the person they love is in relationship with some 1 else, and their relationship is going to last for 7 generations, then the world would be a gloomy place to live in. Relationships break, and I would assume that most of the guy or gal go through different relationships b4 settling down with some 1. Imagine that nemos gal having a break up and then goes out with a different guy later. Go on be a man nemo , get your girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outsider Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 All well and good. But, I for one would find it deeply annoying if, after I've told someone that I'm in a relationship, they continue having a crack. It's not going to endear him to me in any way. It'd be a case of "ffs, what part of "I'm in a relationship, I do not want to date you do you not understand? Do not presume to second-guess my decisions or feelings. It is deeply patronising." Â Unless there are clear signs of ambivalence, I just wouldn't go there, and certainly wouldn't dole it out as the first port of call in advising someone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solitaire Posted September 7, 2011 Report Share Posted September 7, 2011 Only thing you'd by going behind her more is annoy her boyfriend and make him worry. Happened to me.. there was this nutter who kept following her around all day at her college and wrote her name in blood on his arm despite her telling him that she had a boyfriend.... crazy freak made me worry a lot for her safety whenever she was at college. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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