pixeljunkie Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 One question - Does Nemo's female friend feel the same way about him as he does for her? If not, which i'm assuming since she mentioned a boyfriend of 4 years, then Nemo shouldn't try anything at all. But If Nemo's female friend did consciously/unconsciously/unintentionally lead him on, then nobody can blame him for trying to win her over. This is what i've noticed with most queries on this thread; almost all of them are one-sided relationships. If you ask me, i'd rather walk away then be treated like a doormat! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madmage Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 100 pages of Heart aches on IVG .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarbonCore Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 My favorite thread, always cheers me up when I'm feeling low Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 My favorite thread, always cheers me up when I'm feeling low Misery loves company eh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarbonCore Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Misery loves company eh? Pretty much Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parvinder Singh Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Kya hua nemo ko Btw watched pyaar ka punchnama few days back n felt sorry for those guys. I hope aal izz well with guys on this thread. But the movie depicts the usual story n im hope nemo is not one of them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 And most of the time relationships break because some 1 finds another/guy or gal who is better(depending on perspective)? I am not advocatig him trying to create a wedge in a relationship, but If every 1 thinks that the person they love is in relationship with some 1 else, and their relationship is going to last for 7 generations, then the world would be a gloomy place to live in. Relationships break, and I would assume that most of the guy or gal go through different relationships b4 settling down with some 1. Imagine that nemos gal having a break up and then goes out with a different guy later. Go on be a man nemo , get your girl I on a personal level would agree with Outsider. If a guy follows me with hope even after a categoric confession about my relationship status, i would be annoyed and even lose respect for someone so desperate. This has happened to me and only thing I regret is losing a good friend who i used to love to hang out with but only as a great friend. But because of his over confidence about "Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge " and several attempt of telling me why would my relatioship not work later, i thought it best to keep away from him. However as Milo pointed, sometimes it works as well. It can work only if the attraction is very strong and mutual and the relatioship of the girl is not steady or strong or meaningful. I have seen successful cases like this as well, infact one of my close friend actually for his wife in a similar way, she was happily engaged to someone, these guys became friends, they developed feelings, last moment the BF of several years got dumped and my friend and this girl are very happily married now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarishProGamer Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 (edited) I can't read almost entire of 100 pages.... as this is the 1st time im clicking on this thread/subject. Gone through few & GOD! India is far ahead than i thought! Really interesting, some of ur opinions...... Looking at all these things and the debate over things like...:- Marriage,Love,Affair,Relationships,Break-Ups,hubby,boyfriend,girfriend,fiancee,couple.............................etc........etc.............. These have become a brain twisting things for me! Witnessed my friends.. some of them who got married, some changed.. some remained the same, others totally forgot... some became Joru ka Ghulam.. some became Ghar Jamai.. & wat not! My suggestion: Work Hard, Live ur life, Make ur parents proud and then .... there are 2 cases:- 1. Either Love Happens.. (Note: It just happens and will find a way, U don't have to try!) 2. OR Look for a good girl/ let ur parents look, ARRANGED marriage. If both the families have no probs. Thats it. And this this is coming from a 25 yr. guy who has no experience in this department, Wasted/Spent most of his career in Studying,Videogames,travelling and hangouts. No guts to speak/ask a girl for a date! Forget about marriage! Waiting for the Right Girl else will do an Arranged Marriage if the time comes. Thos who are still suffering in relationships/Love => "Love will find a Way" Don't loose hopes. Good Luck. (Edit: After submitting, I noticed.. Maine kuch zyaada hi bhasan de di phir se!) Edited September 8, 2011 by N.Harish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 100 pages Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Wow so many helpful replies. Reading em and gonna reply in a while. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 (edited) clicking on this thread/subject. Gone through few & GOD! India is far ahead than i thought! I can't read almost entire of 100 pages.... as this is the 1st time im Dude, everyone does everything in India, as much as the West. It's just that everything happens in closed doors here and no one talks about it to anyone. Edited September 8, 2011 by Avishkar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanjosh Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Somebody tell me what's this pyaar ka punchnama thing about? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 It's a movie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 so, heres the situation. I like her a lot, yes but she is booked already (damn u love gwads !), but i dont want to lose her as a friend. So am going to maintain a respectable friendly distance and hope to luck out in future as her's is a bit of long distance relationship. I know nice guys invariably finish last but i dont have the badass badman attitude/swagger in me and i dont think it would be polite for me to pester her on and on over the same thing. Dunno how that fells in but its friends, good friends for now. thanks for the helpful messages everyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 One question - Does Nemo's female friend feel the same way about him as he does for her? If not, which i'm assuming since she mentioned a boyfriend of 4 years, then Nemo shouldn't try anything at all. err that 4 year part is i think avishkar's. in my case its a new friendship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanjosh Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 I know nice guys invariably finish last but i dont have the badass badman attitude/swagger in me Many will identify with this, including me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 (edited) err that 4 year part is i think avishkar's. in my case its a new friendship Oh and fact is : almost everyone is a nice person. How can you say that you are a nice guy and maybe the person who is her bf is not nice? The 'nice guys finish last' sentence is just an excuse. Edited September 8, 2011 by Avishkar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 This should cheer you guys up: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Oh and fact is : almost everyone is a nice person. How can you say that you are a nice guy and maybe the person who is her bf is not nice? The 'nice guys finish last' sentence is just an excuse. i cant. He is bad for me, i will say that. for the past 30 mins have been searching on fb to size up the competetion after getting to know the name :| lame i know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 This should cheer you guys up: actually this cheered me up :/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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