pixeljunkie Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 err that 4 year part is i think avishkar's. in my case its a new friendship Oops i cant. He is bad for me, i will say that. for the past 30 mins have been searching on fb to size up the competetion after getting to know the name :| lame i know. Don't waste your time. Really. Move on. There are other fish in the ocean you know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bird Bird Bird Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 so, heres the situation. I like her a lot, yes but she is booked already (damn u love gwads !), but i dont want to lose her as a friend. So am going to maintain a respectable friendly distance and hope to luck out in future as her's is a bit of long distance relationship. I know nice guys invariably finish last but i dont have the badass badman attitude/swagger in me and i dont think it would be polite for me to pester her on and on over the same thing. Dunno how that fells in but its friends, good friends for now. thanks for the helpful messages everyone Sane thing to do brotha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarishProGamer Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Dude, everyone does everything in India, as much as the West. It's just that everything happens in closed doors here and no one talks about it to anyone. I know that dude...... Everything happens in closed doors, just surprised to see being admitted here. It takes a gud amount of guts u know! Im still sticking to that same suggestion as i have discussed in my prev. post. @Nemo: Thats the right thing to do buddy. Stay safe & Be a Good Friend of hers. Well, I never have that kind of Guts to ask a Girl for Date/Marriage.... If anything goes wrong u may loose her even as a friend. Fact: Its rare, i mean really rare to witness a Girl & a Boy as best friends. Some say it happens and some say it never happens..... How does a Guy who has many GFs (Friends not lovers) moves with them, Controls his feelings and remain as a friend like we do among boys! I was in this situation but i escaped smartly bcoz i was afraid that i may fall in Love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LagWarriorZergey Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Men and Women can't be friends.. Something will undeniably start between the two if they get too close! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 (edited) Fact: Its rare, i mean really rare to witness a Girl & a Boy as best friends. Some say it happens and some say it never happens..... How does a Guy who has many GFs (Friends not lovers) moves with them, Controls his feelings and remain as a friend like we do among boys! I was in this situation but i escaped smartly bcoz i was afraid that i may fall in Love. I have many female friends and I don't feel like i'm falling in love with them or anything. It's childish to think that you can be attracted to each and every girl who is a friend . If you really think that you are getting attracted and not in love, then you could have casual sex with them and that wouldn't spoil your friendship with them. Edited September 8, 2011 by Avishkar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Its rare, i mean really rare to witness a Girl & a Boy as best friends. Some say it happens and some say it never happens..... How does a Guy who has many GFs (Friends not lovers) moves with them, Controls his feelings and remain as a friend like we do among boys! I was in this situation but i escaped smartly bcoz i was afraid that i may fall in Love. Quite simple actually ... all a guy requires is self-confidence and maturity If you really think that you are getting attracted and not in love, then you could have casual sex with them and that wouldn't spoil your friendship with them. Really? I doubt it though Physical intimacy is a whole different ball-game ... after a point it always gets awkward/uncomfortable no matter how close and well-understood the pair ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 (edited) Yea, I mean you can't go around having casual sex with all your female friends. Now that would be awkward . But you could have casual sex with 1 of them or maybe 2 at different times as long as you are confident and funny and the girl believes that you are going to be completely normal with her the next morning. Edited September 8, 2011 by Avishkar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Yea, I mean you can't go around having casual sex with all your female friends. Now that would be awkward . But you could have casual sex with 1 of them or maybe 2 at different times as long as you are confident and funny and the girl believes that you are going to be completely normal with her the next morning. What about seconds & thirds? and so on ... ?!? FWB and ONS are totally unrelated dude ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 What about them? If the girl is comfortable the next day and thinks it's arlight, then you can have casual sex frequently. It's just the first time when one feels awkward. After that, if there is no awkwardness then they are going to be fine. Also, please tell me what FWB mean ? f**k With Buddies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 What about them? If the girl is comfortable the next day and thinks it's arlight, then you can have casual sex frequently. It's just the first time when one feels awkward. After that, if there is no awkwardness then they are going to be fine. Also, please tell me what FWB mean ? f**k With Buddies Close ... FWB as in Friends With Benefits ... But don't you get bored after a point? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LagWarriorZergey Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 (edited) @Avishkar.. bro u r in auckland.. this aint india. How often u hear an indian girl get laid (before mariage) and that too to a friend.. Never saw someone in india being a sex buddy with an indian gal! Edited September 8, 2011 by LagWarriorZergey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 (edited) Close ... FWB as in Friends With Benefits ... But don't you get bored after a point? Oh thanks. And: well, ofcourse. But I find everything boring after a point and i'm sure others feel the same. The fact is that fun, meaningless relationships are the way to go in today's time. Good committed relationships and true love are only for some lucky people. The rest just have their fun and carry on with their lives. I would love to really settle down and have a proper relationship at some stage but that's easier typed than done. You need a lot of luck for that to happen. @Avishkar.. bro u r in auckland.. this aint india. How ofter u hear an indian girl get laid (before mariage) and that too to a friend.. Never saw someone in india being a sex buddy with an indian gal! Well I just moved to Auckland this year after finishing 12th. And lol dude, I can agree that not many Indians have FWBs ( thanks PixelJunkie ) but trust me, it's so naive to think that most of them don't get laid before marriage. You just don't know them well enough. Indian girls are one of the best deceivers that you will see as they make you think that they are so innocent when they are not . Most of them have sex before marriage. This is not the late 90s . Edited September 8, 2011 by Avishkar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 @Avishkar.. bro u r in auckland.. this aint india. How ofter u hear an indian girl get laid (before mariage) and that too to a friend.. Never saw someone in india being a sex buddy with an indian gal! The reason you don't hear these things too often is because they make sure no one finds out ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 (edited) ^^^ THIS ! And you are from Delhi LagWarriorZergey . Most of the girls are so horny over there anyway ! Indian girls are really good at keeping things behind closed doors. Edited September 8, 2011 by Avishkar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LagWarriorZergey Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 (edited) Well dats another story! And i knw they are a bunch of horny gals but the drama following is a real pain in the but! Have a friend who is havin a hard time dealin with that lool. Edited September 8, 2011 by LagWarriorZergey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Oh thanks. And: well, ofcourse. But I find everything boring after a point and i'm sure others feel the same. The fact is that fun, meaningless relationships are the way to go in today's time. Good committed relationships and true love are only for some lucky people. The rest just have their fun and carry on with their lives. I would love to really settle down and have a proper relationship at some stage but that's easier typed than done. You need a lot of luck for that to happen. So its just "Wham! Bam! Until Next Time" with female friends? You're really something dude! I mean which guy can "rise to every occassion" with just about any partner! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nemo Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Avishkar is a stud true story Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LagWarriorZergey Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 @Nemo... dats a pimp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avkash Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 woah, sex all over a heart broken thread a lot of single people are going to be heart broken after reading Avishka'rs sexcapades :lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixeljunkie Posted September 8, 2011 Report Share Posted September 8, 2011 Avishkar is a stud http://wendicthomas.files.wordpress.com/2010/08/pimp.jpg true story @Nemo... dats a pimp Where Avishkar is concerned there ain't a difference!!! He's all man!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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