praveer Posted June 14, 2012 Report Share Posted June 14, 2012 (edited) No 13 is unfair, I like women who can control themselves makes them appear mature. I've met a couple of women who are too aggressive during that time and expect the guy to forget whatever she says or does, but let's be honest it hurts a lot and it's harder for us to not think about it (we do even if we get used to it, cause it's very random) than it is for the women to control themselves. On the other hand I've met some women who are amazingly calm and controlled during that time and keep this issue to themselves rather than behaving in an aggressive manner towards me. , Seriously guys.. Amazing theories.. Maa kasam.. itna bhi free time hota hai logon ke paas. Well, Its unfair to judge Indian Guys (most cases) and girls when staying abroad for most of the period (20-25 Years).... considering them as foolish/Stupid/a**holes. Its how they grow up with their society,their buddies,friends circle...... which is a total different scenario in any foreign countries(Most don't give a damn about multiple relationships/breakups there.. unlike here). Agar doston ke saath milke masti nahi ki.. daru nahi pi.. comments pass nahi kiye.. hangouts... movies... nightouts...nahi ki. then my friend you haven't enjoyed Life yet. And im pretty sure 90% of the Indians have gone through these phases in their life. As for how Indians behave in foreign countries I don't have much idea, i never stayed long enough in any foreign countries (Apart from Dhaka ).. so I can't comment. [ @ Praveer bete. ] If to satisfy/get one girl u need to do/take care so many things then... Bhaad me jaaye ladkiyan hum bajaye harmonia. @Rohan... Nailed it. Pretty much what an Ideal man wants from a girl. No crap, straight to the point. It's about their refusal to learn etiquettes and mannerism even after they get repeatedly told that what they are doing is rude. They'll stare at people, talk extremely loud and disturb others, won't be polite (no please, excuse me, thank you, sir, no respect of other's privacy)...again not everyone is like this. I've met some really nice Indian/Pakistani guys here but I've met more guys who are assholes and view white women as "objects of desire" and think of them as nothing but sluts who are always ready to get in bed with anyone within minutes...basically people who think they are superior to the people here. Edited June 14, 2012 by praveer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solitaire Posted June 14, 2012 Report Share Posted June 14, 2012 2. Go to the kitchen. Make him a sandwich. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted June 14, 2012 Report Share Posted June 14, 2012 Here's for all the women who wanna know what your BF/husband secretly wants from you... 1. Stop making inane lists. 2. Go to the kitchen. Make him a sandwich. Megz pwnt ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solitaire Posted June 14, 2012 Report Share Posted June 14, 2012 Well, Its unfair to judge Indian Guys (most cases) and girls when staying abroad for most of the period (20-25 Years).... considering them as foolish/Stupid/a**holes. Its how they grow up with their society,their buddies,friends circle...... which is a total different scenario in any foreign countries(Most don't give a damn about multiple relationships/breakups there.. unlike here). Agar doston ke saath milke masti nahi ki.. daru nahi pi.. comments pass nahi kiye.. hangouts... movies... nightouts...nahi ki. then my friend you haven't enjoyed Life yet. And im pretty sure 90% of the Indians have gone through these phases in their life. As for how Indians behave in foreign countries I don't have much idea, i never stayed long enough in any foreign countries (Apart from Dhaka ).. so I can't comment. [ @ Praveer bete. ] They do all that stuff here too - both white/black folks and the rest here, but then they know how to be refined when the time calls for it and not act like a caveman. Which is more than I can say for some of my friends here who study with me at the university for their masters. Upbringing and the kind of dog-eat-dog competition for everything from getting into a bus to scoring grades and such could very well be the main reason that that level of politeness in public life doesn't quite come easily to a good number of Indians. And the ABCDs here... my God the extent to which they show off makes you laugh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ne0 Posted June 15, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 No 13 is unfair, I like women who can control themselves makes them appear mature. I've met a couple of women who are too aggressive during that time and expect the guy to forget whatever she says or does, but let's be honest it hurts a lot and it's harder for us to not think about it (we do even if we get used to it, cause it's very random) than it is for the women to control themselves. On the other hand I've met some women who are amazingly calm and controlled during that time and keep this issue to themselves rather than behaving in an aggressive manner towards me. It's about their refusal to learn etiquettes and mannerism even after they get repeatedly told that what they are doing is rude. They'll stare at people, talk extremely loud and disturb others, won't be polite (no please, excuse me, thank you, sir, no respect of other's privacy)...again not everyone is like this. I've met some really nice Indian/Pakistani guys here but I've met more guys who are assholes and view white women as "objects of desire" and think of them as nothing but sluts who are always ready to get in bed with anyone within minutes...basically people who think they are superior to the people here. I think that's because of exposure to select hollywood movies and maybe porn .... but yeah, even I feel some Indians do think very low of women especially if she's not an Indian .... i've a guy here with me in korea who keeps lamenting on how he's come here as a married man, and if he had been a bachelor he would've scored with all the ladies here .... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scuderiaT1fos1 Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 Here's for all the women who wanna know what your BF/husband secretly wants from you... 1. Stop making inane lists. 2. Go to the kitchen. Make him a sandwich. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
killzone123 Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 Here's for all the women who wanna know what your BF/husband secretly wants from you... 1. Stop making inane lists. 2. Go to the kitchen. Make him a sandwich. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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megzworld Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 Here's for all the women who wanna know what your BF/husband secretly wants from you... 1. Stop making inane lists. 2. Go to the kitchen. Make him a sandwich. I bet you are Mr. Forever Alone! Some more items for the list, 31. We're afraid of commitment, too. You may think we spend our time scheming ways to trap you into marriage, but many of us are quite happy being independent and autonomous. 32.Women need some time to themselves or with other girlfriends. We need space as well and some good time, without you hanging around with us all the time. Shocking, but true. 33. We just want men to be reasonable. Most of men don’t want their women in a bar alone; We like protective guys but we also get irritated by the over possessive types. 34.Most women like it when men make more money than they do. Our money is our money, your money is our money too 35Men shouldn't knit pick every single little thing women do or try to do, like driving. If you don’t want women to drive, take the keys but expect consequences. But if a man asks a woman to drive, he should be quiet and let her drive the way she normally does. It is truly okay if she doesn't drive the way he does. 36Women do like to take care of men, but also like to be taken care of, too. It would be nice if the man had the babysitter ready, the restaurant chosen, and a movie he thought both would like to see. Maybe this is asking a lot, but God knows how many blood and gore or military movies women have sat through, and even learned to like because they are in love with their men. So men can learn to do the same for an occasional romantic comedy or even, yes, dare it be said, a chick flick. 37.Remember, communications is the key to every good relationship. Women want to be the best friend, the lover, and the partner in every way. Discussing things, especially if there is a tense situation, helps relieve the tension or it brings out some funny things or intellectual issues that might not otherwise come out if communications stop. 38Make sure to spend some time alone together. Just the two of you will make a difference in the relationship. Most women love it when they get to spend time with partner alone.Don't answer your phone every hour. 39.We like Men in White Shirt -Blue Jeans, Men holding babies but what really makes a sexy picture is your man dressed in his boxers making breakfast for you, humming a sexy song and sporting a happy smile.. Oh truly Sexy! 40 And a super secret- Don’t caress a woman’s face while you’re kissing her unless you really like her. This move translates to, “I want to have babies with you.” Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ne0 Posted June 15, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 Here's for all the women who wanna know what your BF/husband secretly wants from you... 1. Stop making inane lists. 2. Go to the kitchen. Make him a sandwich. +1. THIS. Men are so simple .... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 Sorry AMG for copying but all I can say about Megz and her lame advices and 'items on the list' posts that except for Gaurav, I dont think anyone even bothers reading... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solitaire Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 (edited) 31. We're afraid of commitment, too. You may think we spend our time scheming ways to trap you into marriage, but many of us are quite happy being independent and autonomous. -Hahaha yeah right 32.Women need some time to themselves or with other girlfriends. We need space as well and some good time, without you hanging around with us all the time. Shocking, but true. -Nope, not all of them. Some wanna stick with you like a leech 34.Most women like it when men make more money than they do. Our money is our money, your money is our money too -Sad, but true :'( 35Men shouldn't knit pick every single little thing women do or try to do, like driving. If you don’t want women to drive, take the keys but expect consequences. But if a man asks a woman to drive, he should be quiet and let her drive the way she normally does. It is truly okay if she doesn't drive the way he does. - 38Make sure to spend some time alone together. Just the two of you will make a difference in the relationship. Most women love it when they get to spend time with partner alone.Don't answer your phone every hour. - Why not ? 39.We like Men in White Shirt -Blue Jeans. - WTF this sounds lame, but it's actually true for many women. Do you folks like have a hive-mind or something 40 And a super secret- Don’t caress a woman’s face while you’re kissing her unless you really like her. This move translates to, “I want to have babies with you.” - You just contradicted your 31st point in a way here Edited June 15, 2012 by Gaurav - Solitaire Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solitaire Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 Sorry AMG for copying but all I can say about Megz and her lame advices and 'items on the list' posts that except for Gaurav, I dont think anyone even bothers reading... Some of the stuff she says is true... the rest I read for the LOLZ like how I read the majority of your posts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
megzworld Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 Sorry AMG for copying but all I can say about Megz and her lame advices and 'items on the list' posts that except for Gaurav, I dont think anyone even bothers reading... Don't know about others reading my posts..but I am sure you read them word to word.. Besides, I get called b*tch quite often. What I don't get called is pushover, pervert, or doormat. Works for me! I am the girl-middle finger in the air, unaffected by what others think. The truth: I don't care. So open your mouth and stick out your tongue, you might as well let go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man In The Box Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 Some of the stuff she says is true... the rest I read for the LOLZ like how I read the majority of your posts Haha! Don't know about others reading my posts..but I am sure you read them word to word.. I know you'd love to think that but too bad ... I have read majority of your posts just for lulz but seriously, don't even be crazy enough to think that I even read a full sentence of your 'useless lists' post Besides, I get called b*tch quite often. What I don't get called is pushover, pervert, or doormat. Works for me! I am the girl-middle finger in the air, unaffected by what others think. The truth: I don't care. Read the first line. Then read the second line. Repeat. Repeat again. You will understand the contradiction. If you don't, then ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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outsider Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 My two cents. Its pretty simple. Three things. 1. Be interesting. 2. Don't be a d*ck (also known as emotional maturity). 3. We ain't that different. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
outsider Posted June 15, 2012 Report Share Posted June 15, 2012 Also, for the record, "B*tch please" is no more offensive to a woman than it is to a man. You've got the right to call bullsh*t on me. I have the right to think you're a moron for it. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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