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Use this situation to your advantage boyo. Dramatize your sob story and pull out that loser card, girls will easily fall for u.... esp the 20+ one who can identify with your situation since they themselves got dumped by their prince charming after getting their cherries popped. Have fun and then move on to the next one.

 

omg.. kya baat :majesty: but sorry bro am not that much of a playboy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Aww.. :hug: But that's because you must have been a "Good Friend" for past 7 years!! How do you expect the girl to suddenly make you her prince charming coming back from seven year exile.. Next time..take 7 days max ok?? And you will fall in love again. Guaranteed!

 

 

 

 

its not that siple meghna, i loved her since i was in 9th and she was in 7th. then schools changed, she moved away and i was alwasy too tongue tied to say anything, now all of a sudden due to a friend's backing i got the courage to ask her after she came in contact with me again after 3 years of wilderness.

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Ye thread bahut damdar hain.... Never fails to deliver !

 

Nemo -- Eloborate karega? And you asked out a "SEVEN YEAR OLD" crush.. Saat saal tak jkar mar raha tha kya :|

 

it started when we were in schoold, i in 9th and she in 7th, we lived in the same society too. back then i was over 100 kgs and low self esteem, then i became presentable but always lacked the courage to ask her out, then she changed school and locality. 3 years of no contact, then just out of the blue we met last weeks or so, drove 4 times to gurgoan to meet her in span of 10 days. Treated her well. My friend gave me advice on how to ask her out, kaafi ghooma fira ke bolna tha but i like a raging bull straight on told her my feelings, she kinda got a shock :|

 

things got ackwardbetween us, then later on we chatted on phone and she was like its cool, we can be friends and all. My sis had a chat with her and she is like, the girl DOES have some interest in me but she wants me to be more groomed and able for her.

I really really really love this girl, poora filmi crush hai, I know she is the perfect girl for me, dream kudi sorts. This is what i feel for her-

 

 

 

 

 

As of now my plan of course is to be a friend, good one, but keep my intentions on my sleeve, work on the grooming and studies part and bring up the topic in a few months' time.

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I really really really love this girl, poora filmi crush hai, I know she is the perfect girl for me, dream kudi sorts.

 

I used to be a 'crusher' just like you but then I took some 'hot smexy young 9 member korean girl bands' to the knee :wub:

 

 

 

More like the region about the ni

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True one sided love bridging countries :cry:

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it started when we were in schoold, i in 9th and she in 7th, we lived in the same society too. back then i was over 100 kgs and low self esteem, then i became presentable but always lacked the courage to ask her out, then she changed school and locality. 3 years of no contact, then just out of the blue we met last weeks or so, drove 4 times to gurgoan to meet her in span of 10 days. Treated her well. My friend gave me advice on how to ask her out, kaafi ghooma fira ke bolna tha but i like a raging bull straight on told her my feelings, she kinda got a shock :|

 

things got ackwardbetween us, then later on we chatted on phone and she was like its cool, we can be friends and all. My sis had a chat with her and she is like, the girl DOES have some interest in me but she wants me to be more groomed and able for her.

I really really really love this girl, poora filmi crush hai, I know she is the perfect girl for me, dream kudi sorts. This is what i feel for her-

 

 

 

 

 

As of now my plan of course is to be a friend, good one, but keep my intentions on my sleeve, work on the grooming and studies part and bring up the topic in a few months' time.

Sorry but that's not nearly heart wrenching enough for another girl to fall for you. Maybe you can say 'How you were in a long distance relationship for many years and then later she comes back to town and falls for your best buddy who back stabbed u for that girl'. By god, you'll score some hot (or not) chicks this way.

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There comes a point though, where the girl (or guy) is so intoxicated that the consent or lack thereof is meaningless - that's not only unethical, but also illegal.

 

 

Not if you prove that you yourself were too drunk to react at that time :giggle:

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it started when we were in schoold, i in 9th and she in 7th, we lived in the same society too. back then i was over 100 kgs and low self esteem, then i became presentable but always lacked the courage to ask her out, then she changed school and locality. 3 years of no contact, then just out of the blue we met last weeks or so, drove 4 times to gurgoan to meet her in span of 10 days. Treated her well. My friend gave me advice on how to ask her out, kaafi ghooma fira ke bolna tha but i like a raging bull straight on told her my feelings, she kinda got a shock :|

 

things got awkward between us, then later on we chatted on phone and she was like its cool, we can be friends and all. My sis had a chat with her and she is like, the girl DOES have some interest in me but she wants me to be more groomed and able for her.

I really really really love this girl, poora filmi crush hai, I know she is the perfect girl for me, dream kudi sorts. This is what i feel for her-

 

 

 

As of now my plan of course is to be a friend, good one, but keep my intentions on my sleeve, work on the grooming and studies part and bring up the topic in a few months' time.

 

 

Aww Nemo.. First a hug for you :hug:

 

So you like her and have this filmy crush on her from ages. And you went to her like Ranbir Kapoor in Rockstar and told her, "Meri Girlfriend banegi?" and it kind of fizzled..

 

Now ask yourself the following,

 

1. Why do you think you are not good enough for her? It's great that she inspires you to be fit and better student and all that, but what if she does not reciprocate your feelings, would you go back to your 100 kilo days? Dude, relationship lasts if you love and accept the person for who they are.. If she loves you with the way you are now, chances are she will love you even when you look better or earn more or do better.

 

2. 3 years away is a lot of time. Hav you ever tried to know if she is seeing someone else? what if there already is someone out there who she is dating?

 

3. Be a good friend to her, get to know her a little more, get her to know you more.. Do something common like, join a gym together or salsa class or something.. When you spend time together the friendship will grow and may be even love will come into the picture. If not, atleast you will get to spend some quality time with the girl who you like and who inspires you.

 

All the best.. (Neeli aankhen marwaengi!)

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Read this somewhere.. Found useful for this thread,

 

you’re just a friend if…

 

You hear phrases like: “I can talk to you about anything,“ “You‘re really a nice guy,” “You‘re like a brother to me,” “You‘re my best friend,” and “You understand me."

You finally work up the courage to ask her out and she tells you: “I don’t want to jeopardize our friendship,” “I like you too much to go out with you,” “I don’t want to risk losing what we have,” and so on.

She tells you all about her problems with men.

She asks you for advice about the men she’s attracted to.

She tells you excitedly, “I just met this really great guy!”

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Read this somewhere.. Found useful for this thread,

 

you’re just a friend if…

 

You hear phrases like: “I can talk to you about anything,“ “You‘re really a nice guy,” “You‘re like a brother to me,” “You‘re my best friend,” and “You understand me."

You finally work up the courage to ask her out and she tells you: “I don’t want to jeopardize our friendship,” “I like you too much to go out with you,” “I don’t want to risk losing what we have,” and so on.

She tells you all about her problems with men.

She asks you for advice about the men she’s attracted to.

She tells you excitedly, “I just met this really great guy!”

 

This should be more like...

 

You know that she thinks you are gay if...

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:rofl:

seriously which guy would want to be in that position?

 

True.....girls just haven understood guys yet :giggle:..........we dont wanna be just your friend :doh:.....i mean haven Shahrukh Khan told you enough times - "Ek ladka aur ladki sirf dost kabhi nahi ho sakte" :doh:....

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So she, her best female friend and a couple of other guys gave me a surprise party last night, and I sort of err....kissed her?

I donno where this goes now.

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